Letter to my future baby 4
My dear baby,
Anytime you feel you need me, without you telling i will be with you. A woman doesn't becomes a mother when she gives birth to her baby instead in real actual terms she becomes a mother when she trusts her child, when he knows what her child needs, when she understands likes and dislikes of her child, when she leaves everything for the sake of her child. When her child becomes tops her priority list not when her child's name comes in the list of options.
Being there for your child is a matter of preference and not an option. A girl/woman is usually forced to get married not because she is ready to handle all the responsibilities but instead to have babies. She also has a life of her own over which she has complete rights. There are some for whom a girl is a burden but learn to respect every girl, women always.
That doesn't mean a girl is always right sometimes she goes wrong as well. Just know whom to respect and whom to trust.
It also doesn't mean a girl is always wrong. Sometimes, she is a culprit and sometimes she is a victim. Know what's right and what's wrong. Stand for truth and defeat lies. Mumma will always be there when your legs quiver to hold you no matter what the world says.