A woman doesn’t want to be the center of your world young man. Stop searching for a goddess to enshrine. Stop chasing the siren calls beckoning your ship to the rocks. It’s a Chinese finger trap; the tighter you squeeze your grip, the more sand slips between your fingers.Explore the cave of your soul, let your roots grow deep so that you may weather the storms. You will never obtain the happiness you pursue, but enshrine meaning and you will find happiness in pursuit.And when your ore has been heated, and hammered, and chilled again and again... and you find the face in the mirror forged into something unrecognizable, when you no longer chase, women will be drawn, as if by electromagnetism.
Not to be the center, but to a man who is centered.
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