मुलाकातों का सिलसिला उतना ही रखो,
जितनी ज़रूरत हो,
वरना रोज़ मिलने की चाहत लिए,
हुक़ूमत एक दूसरे पर राज करने लग जाती है।।

- पूजा गौतम

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A mother always being
overprotective of her child,
often unknowingly damages
the child's self survival skills...

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It's not "Overprotective"
It's "Care for you"
It's not "Jealousy"
It's "lOVE"
It's not "Possessiveness"
It's "Fear Of Losing You"
& losing you means "Losing Myself"

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"Sometimes when I feel extremely low, I tend to isolate myself instead of speaking to someone. To me, it feels like I'll drain them out and drag them down to my lows. Though my best friend tells me it isn't true and that she loves to be there for me, I find it hard to believe that I don't drain her out at times. I love her a lot and would never want her to feel upset for something I am going through. I vent out my feelings in front of her but when I feel extremely low, I isolate myself.
Am I overthinking?"

"Sometimes, we tend to be overprotective. We forget that we are designed to depend at times. We need to seek help. We need to unburden. That's the very reason we were given the ability to express because we were not shaped to be absolutely independent. We were given relationships for a reason.
But, in a house, if you don't keep the windows open, you suffocate eventually. Suffocation kills sometimes. So, it's better to let go and surrender.
We need to normalize feeling weak sometimes. We need to normalize sharing our pains. Nobody said we have to be eternally, unchangeably strong all the time."

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There are things whose consequences demand explanations. Not once, twice, but everytime I explore them. The more I explore, the more I get exploited. Not by what I do, but, by the very question of why I had to do. 'A lack of trust' I cannot tag it. 'A lack of knowledge'? No. Maybe "overprotectiveness", leaving me with in a state of "not again" for so long as the word itself. At the end, they say they love me and I say the same. Love-Doubt-Hurt-love and it's a cycle.

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When I make mistakes,
I happen to accept all the punishment
that Karma has to give..
But when my loved ones make a mistake,
I cannot even bear the thought of them
being punished..

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The darker the night goes
The lonlier my soul becomes

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"When someone
over-protects you,
remember that you're
turning into a glass."


-- ©Blessy, Antenet

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My brother is like a mesmerising dawn.
For some people it's the end of an tiresome day and for some it's a fortunate beginning of a new one...
Which ever is your approach, it always brings a comforting smile on your face.

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Yeah...
May be I'm over protective..
May be over caring too..
But this world is very harmful for
good and simple humans like you..!!

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