#oldme20

Someday we will be lost in fame game,
After 10 years we might not look the way we are,
Someday the people we call our circle might go away,
The friends that we hang upon with whom we can’t imagine our life might not be part of your life,
The love with which you might have loved everyone might not comeback or else I say might have given setback, and list goes on

But you know what is common between all of these is you. You have come afar acknowledge that, you are your biggest cheerleader, so shout,love, befriend, learn, do whatever you want for yourself…… no matter what !! you are hero for yourself…..
#selfcare #selflove #selffirst #selfmade #selfportrait #selfreminder #selfimprovement #selfworth #selfdevelopment

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#oldme20

Someday we will be lost in fame game,
After 10 years we might not look the way we are,
Someday the people we call our circle might go away,
The friends that we hang upon with whom we can’t imagine our life might not be part of your life,
The love with which you might have loved everyone might not comeback or else I say might have given setback, and list goes on

But you know what is common between all of these is you. You have come afar acknowledge that, you are your biggest cheerleader, so shout,love, befriend, learn, do whatever you want for yourself…… no matter what !! you are hero for yourself…..
#selfcare #selflove #selffirst #selfmade #selfportrait #selfreminder #selfimprovement #selfworth #selfdevelopment

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"Hidup adalah kompetisi bergengsi yang dihiasi dengan keindahan akhlak dan keikhlasan hati." (Bogor, 08032024)

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Jangan mudah tersinggung saat di caci. Namun jadikanlah cacian itu sebagai cambuk motivasi diri agar lebih baik lagi

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It's okay to have an opinion on things you aren't the person you were 10 years ago. Even if you are afraid, it's okay to want to change and express yourself without feeling that you are a bother or an inconvenience. You can tell your friends that you don't like to go to clubs every Friday, you can decide which restaurant you want to try, you can ask them to change something if you feel uncomfortable, you can tell them to respect your boundaries if they overstep. You are allowed not to be nice to the family members who are always mocking you, you can be a part of planning a trip rather than just saying "oh, anything's fine". people aren't adjusting to your needs. you are just finding balance and being involved the way it suits you.

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REMINDER
Instead of breathe in nd out do not become a panic museum to your self
In order to doing your best.

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PROSA RONTAKAN JIWA

Engkau tengah menegurku, Tuhan? Lewat wajah manis dan tatapan sayu yang dulu penuh kepolosan lagi lucu.

Engkau masih terus mengujiku, Tuhan? Lewat mereka yang terpaksa kutolak untuk berdebat hebat.

Aku lumpuh. Luluh lantak dalam bisu, meluruh. Jeritku tak lagi bersuara. Melarut dalam duka yang tak kuasa berasa. Selesai sudah. Berpisah.
(Bogor, 9 November 2023)

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PROSA MENUJU SETUJU

Kita lahir dari luka dan perih yang bertubi-tubi. Tanpa perlu membuang energi untuk membalas secara keji.

Kita sadar bahwa semua yang terjadi sudah tertulis di Lauhulmahfuz, oleh karenanya jangan mendendam sampai mampus.

Kita bukan pengecut yang bergerak jika dipecut.

Kita hanya sedang membelah diri agar tetap seimbang dalam berbagi.

Bogor, 8 November 2023

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And if today , all you did was hold yourself together , iam proud of you.

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Believe in yourself.You have more somedays to bring to life.

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