"We should practice how to control ourselves, since neither one can control how to stop silly threatens, nor make them clear they're wrong, and somehow I think whenever we have any doubt, it works sometimes beyond the sense of humor."
There are always two sides of anything, one which is the ' reality 'of that thing and other is ' what you or people think about that ' thing, make sure your thinking should resemble the reality more than presupposition...
Onesided Assumption is the mother of all f #$@$% misunderstandings in the world
And it arises when there's a communication gap between 2 people
Think your questions as demand or clarity and someone arguement as the answer or supply
When there is no supply and we still have demand we tend to find supply outside
May be a friend well wisher or you're innerself who doesn't know the reality of the other person and you n all other start assuming things which may b far from reality,and which will start a process of negative emotion
Best thing to do wait have patience let time tell truth or talk talk talk express all emotion and get clarity from the right person him/her, and stop one sided assumption....