Almighty. We ask You to make us sincere to ourselves, to accept our mistakes and be ready always to adjust. We're imperfect. Never let pride ruin our hearts. Prevent us from always judging others. Rather let us focus on ourselves. Make us good people wherever we're. Aameen.
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🌹 MOTHER
Zurʿah b. Ibrāhīm narrated that a man came to ʿUmar b. al-Khaṭṭāb (may Allah be pleased with him) and asked:
“I have a mother who is very old and she is only able to fulfil her needs by riding on my back. I even wash her and turn my face away. Have I fulfilled her ḥaq (ie: right)?”
عن زرعة بن إبراهيم، أن رجلاً أتى عمر رضي الله عنه، فقال: إن لي أماً بلغ بها الكبر، وأنها لا تقضي حاجتها إلا وظهري مطية لها، وأوضئها، وأصرف وجهي عنها، فهل أديت حقها؟
He replied, “No.”
قال: لا.
The man said: “Did I not carry her on my back and put myself at her service?”
قال: أليس قد حملتها على ظهري، وحبست نفي عليها؟
He (ie: ʿUmar) replied: “She used to do that for you while wishing you live, but you (do it) wishing that she dies.”
قال: (إنها كانت تصنع ذلك بك، وهي تتمنى بقاءك، وأنت تتمنى فراقها).
Ibn al-Jāwzī, Birr al-Wālidayn 1/1
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🌹Love & Hate Moderately
Prophet ﷺ said:
"Love the one you love moderately, because you may hate them someday.
“And hate the one you hate moderately, because you may love them someday."
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