On behalf of the NEW MOMS!
How sad all friends of mine too faces this❗️”WE UNDERSTAND YOUR LOVE, BUT YOU TOO NEED & MUST HAVE TO UNDERSTAND US”
A newborn baby is not your “TOY” for all to lift, hold, kiss and talk holding it straight in front of your face❗️
“ஆசையா இருக்கு” “பாசமா இருக்கு” alll these phrases means nothing to the baby who has not even developed full vision until 4-5months old, if someone is that affectionate they should be conscious that newborns doesn’t have its immune system developed until it’s 6-7months old & their can’t produce antibodies until they are 4-5months old, today’s moms are not even ready to take risk hearing all these “அந்த காலத்துல, நாங்கலான்” dialogues❗️
Try with yours & not with ours. If people TRULY cares for the baby, whoever you are just allow it to be handled only by its parents atleast for 4-5 months. In these most important initial phases you are proving nothing by putting us moms in frustration by doing all these in the name of “Expressing or Affection or Love”. It’s the LEAST every new moms wants from everyone around, next time when you visit any baby “NEVER DO THESE” PLEASE!-
From
Growing up experiencing the utmost care
even on the normal daily days
& being brought up with all highest selfless
love and care by our parents & us sharing all those tiny things with them.
To
Being mentally deeply hurt in a worse possible way
when you are at your weakest physical state
& you now not even opening your mouth about
your life’s worst incident to your parents,
We all slowly grew up!
We will slowly grow up to change ourselves to fit
into the silly drama games these earthly humans play here, no matter who you are. At some point you have to cross these.
As we grow older, we learn மனிதர்கள்.
& What all possible unimaginable things someone can do to you in the most critical days.
Baby, Anyone can do you Anything on Anyday,
No matter how good you thought they were. They will.
#மனிதசுபாவம்.-
The days you live in head
thinking and dreaming of something
in the most beautiful and purest way
will be the most beautiful days,
far above of when you live and face it in reality!-
You can’t change the way how people thinks of you,
You can’t change the way how others perceive you,
You can’t.
Make people think,
But never expect them to think like you.
Be good, but never expect them to think good of you.
You can’t feed humans few things.
You can just be, you can just do your things right.
That’s it!-
And then you realise someday
that
“The picture you’ve build up about
someone” is never the same as
“who they really are”.
No matter who they are,
No matter who you are,
No matter how you both relate to.-
No one ever changes forever,
No one can change anyone.
No people here is strong enough to change themselves except very few.
No matter what never try hard to feed wisdom.-
“Yoga is not about touching your toes. It is what you learn on the way down.”– Jigar Gor
Yes, yoga is a physical practice.
But the unity of Body, Mind and Soul is Yoga,
That makes you more healthy mentally than physically.
Celebrating the art that transforms you
both mentally and physically in the most beautiful way…
Happy international yoga day to
my little ones out there!-
These things puts me in puzzle
which I know I want to solve soon
which itself leaves me with the puzzles of
me, you and everything around.
Wer we keep asking them you and me, are we
overthinking..?
Life.-