I am not loving this “getting older” thing,
Trying our best to hide our worst,
Where Living in oblivion has become a lifestyle,
Where Fears have taken over our joys,
Where Insecurities have clouded over our blessings,
Crying has become a misdeed,
Smiley faces have become a sign of camouflaging sadness,
And here we are, not showing our wounds pretending to be strong
But is it really a sign of strength?
Or, are we just fooling ourselves
Till we take our last breath?
What if, then, we realize that we lead our life the wrong way?

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Ever got that feeling of attachment for someone? Whether for your parents, grand parents, siblings, friends, pet etcetera?
When You are scared of losing them, when you can't see a single drop of worry on their face, when you get jealous if that person gives attention to someone.
When you are attached to someone then your brain starts doing overtime job, it starts thinking way too more than it's job is, in that state our mind reaches to a great level of imagination if that imagination could be channelized in some positive direction then it could lead you to a fortune and this overtime job gets paid with rewards like lost mental peace, extreme negativity, lost mind and a great desire to run far away.Even the mere silence of that person makes turmoil in your mind. Although you have no right to blame that person for your state of mind.
Attachment is the cause of suffering, in some ways it also stops you from reaching your potential, it makes you vulnerable, it makes you weak. Just take two minutes from your "BUSY LIFE" to imagine yourself where you are free from these attachments, to me it feels like I have been released from a cage.
Continue........

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Nope it's NOT OKAY
This ignoble understanding of people is NOT OKAY
Pulling yourself down to fit in this world is NOT OKAY
Hiding or suppressing your true self is NOT OKAY
Living life in accordance to other's opinions is NOT OKAY
Living with disbelief in self is NOT OKAY
To question your potential is NOT OKAY
To hide Your true feelings is NOT OKAY
Does anybody know what okay is?

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I can't capture this mind boggling composition of nature with a mere smartphone...

One can capture the view but regrettably can't capture or store the sense of contentment we felt just by gazing at this charmer

One can capture the view but regrettably can't capture or hold the unceasing moment in which

our heart got sanked

One can capture the view but regrettably can't

capture the butterflies we got missing someone

one can capture the view but regrettably.....

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Why is crying considered as a sign of weakness? Why r we treated like "अच्छे बच्चे रोते नहीं"?
Crying is an emotion and it must be taken normally just like laughing. We can laugh to tears in public but can't we cry? Crying is a mere emotion and suppressing emotions is real shit. From the very childhood we are forced to suppress our emotions and this is a cause of Anxiety,stress, depression, decreased immune system, fatigue and sleep problems etc. When a person is happy he shows happiness by laughing to its contrary, If a person is sad he would cry but why can't we normalise crying and let that person show his emotions? We can't live our whole life expressing a single emotion and suppressing another as life is a balance between ups and downs. Both emotions should be normalised as both are parts of our life.
When you see a person crying let him unload his emotions nd make him comfortable with that. There is nothing wrong in expressing our true emotions.

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Why judging is considered toxic or a bad habit? Why are we forced to stop it when we can't stop it ? Why can't we see judging with a broader perspective?

Judging is scripted in our minds from our very childhood and we can't get out of it. Instead we can make a shift in our perspective or frame of reference towards judging. When we see a person or a place, judgements are automatically being passed on by our minds and in my opinion these judgements are inevitable. But to rely on these judgements or assumptions made by our mind is our choice, to act in accordance with these judgements is our choice and I think this is the real problem which is needed to be fixed. To hold that judgement or assumption in our mind and to make a rigid image of that person or place based on those quick assumptions is toxic.
We can't blame judging as it is inevitable, instead the issue is with our own response to these judgements, how we react, how we make decisions based on these judgements or assumptions is the real shit.
So instead of forcing ourselves to stop judging why can't we focus on how to respond to these judgements or assumptions made by our creative minds ?

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Sometimes when I get into deep thinking on the paradigms of people around me I find myself way too different from them nd it just feels like to get away from them nd to find a place where people could think beyond their toxic thinking paradigms.

Why can't people appreciate little efforts, little blessings they have instead of focusing on the things they don't have or the efforts that weren't made?

Why people put their energies in complaining about the things beyond their control instead of channelising them in productive activities which are absolutely in their control? For an instance, consider the covid pandemic which is almost faced by the whole world. In this situation people are like " everything is over, nothing left", " this virus has ruined everything". Although this pandemic has disturbed our life so badly but we can't change that by complaining about it instead we could channelize our energies in something productive like we could pray, learn new skills, speak positively as these are the things which are in our control or in our circle of influence.

That's why it's so hard for me to socialize with people☺️☺️

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