"They laugh at me,
little do they know
that I believe in me"

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finding faults and pointing fingers
with my own dirty hands.

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When you Point the Finger at Others, Don't Forget Four Fingers are on Your Side.
Look at Yourself First WHO you are ! WHAT you are ! WHY you are !

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दुनिया में आपको दोष देने वाले बहुत है,
पर उन्हें गलत साबित करने के लिए आपके अपने है.

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We have plenty of time to point out the problems in others, While we fail to give ourselves a minute to resolve our own.

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Before pointing a finger to judge someone
pay attention to remaining three
which recalls you must have to
look yourself 3 times before judging.

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Feel free to point at others... just straighten your act first. Or you will look silly & red-faced when they point back at you.

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There was no hand to help me or push me in right path while I was in confusion and choose to travel in wrong path.
But now thousands of hands are pointing towards me to comment and advice on my failures.

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If pointing fingers attract money, I know some millionaire.

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Blaming” acts as a defense mechanism helping us preserve our sense of self esteem as when we blame we wash our hands off our mistakes and transfer it on to the other person hence keeping us on the safer side unconcsiously and artificially. Our brains are wired to do things the easy way and it is always easy to blame someone rather than accepting responsibility of ours!
It feeds our ego as it helps us being in control as we transfer the “bad” result of “difficult” things. This feeding of Ego comes with a cost of our sense of being as it hampers our sense of growth and fulfilling relationships because we never try to gain perspective of the situation and think from just one angle “it was because of him/her”.
When we lack empathy we are unable to place them at others shoes and understand why someone committed that mistake. But when people make a mistake instead of accepting it they try blame situations.

Empathy and Acceptance!
lack of these two qualities always leads
To people pointing others and defending themselves. While we all know world is no perfect and most of people lack these qualities.
Resultant they live in ignorance .

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