I LOVE THIS ANALOGY:

You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your arm, making you spill your coffee everywhere.

Why did you spill the coffee?

"Because someone bumped into me!!!"
Wrong answer.

You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup.
Had there been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea.
Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out.

Therefore, when life comes along and shakes you (which WILL happen), whatever is inside you will come out. It's easy to fake it, until you get rattled.

So we have to ask ourselves... “what's in my cup?"

When life gets tough, what spills over?
Joy, gratitude, peace and humility?
Anger, bitterness, victim mentality and quitting tendencies?

Life provides the cup, YOU choose how to fill it.

Today let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation, resilience, positivity; and kindness, gentleness and love for others.

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Dad,

No matter how old I get, I still need you...

I miss your smile, which was my sunshine,
The day I lost you was the most traumatic day in my life ,
I am still searching for you, from the day I lost you.
My mind awaits to see you, at least in my dreams,
and my thoughts were stuck at the place where you left us, which spools back in my mind often...

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I miss how we used to talk every minute of every day & how I was able to tell you everything that was on my mind. I miss our conversations !!

Miss you dad💔

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Each day..,
Whatever i do,
Something reminds me of you , and then i realize your absence in my life can never be compensated by anyone.

Miss you a lot, my dear daddy
Missing your smiling face....

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Dad..,

You know what...
Sometimes, i used to think that no one was there to - listen me..,
SAY - YES for Everything , i have asked for as you do

Sometimes, i was speechless because ,
No one was there to agree with my opinion as you do....


Those were the times
I felt the emptiness that couldn't be filled by anyone, which can be filled only by you.

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அப்பா...

இன்று..,

நீங்கள், உங்கள் புன்னகை மற்றும்
உங்கள் வாழ்த்துக்கள் - இவை அனைத்தும் திரும்ப கிடைத்துவிடாத என்று ஏங்குகிறேன்...

பிறந்தநாள் அன்று அனைவரின் வாழ்த்துக்களும் சந்தோஷம் தந்தாலும்.....

உங்களுடைய புன்னகையுடன் கூடிய வாழ்துக்கள் இல்லாமல் வாழ்த்துக்கள் நிறைவடைய போவதில்லை.....

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Dont ask for anything from anyone..

If they have to done it for you..,

They might have done before you voice your needs...

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At the time of yr birth i may not be near you....

When you are growing i may not be near you...

But

you will be always in my prayers...

You will be my 1st baby in my heart alwayz...

You hold a special place in my heart my hanz baby..

Happiest bday to you my babe🥰🥰🥰

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ஆசை யாரை விட்டது....
என்று சிலரை நக்கல் செய்தவர்...

இன்று...
பேராசையால் தன்னிலை தெரியாமல் ஆடி கொண்டு இருக்கிறார்கள்...!

தான் செய்த பாவத்தை துடைக்க...
பகட்டுக்காக..,
தானம் தர்மம் ஊர் அறிய செய்கிறார்கள்....

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Pidithavargalukaga kadavulidam prathanai seikindrome..

Nam prathanai seivathalo enavo..

Kadavuluk avargalai pidith poyekindrath..

Kadavuluk pidithavargal avathal.., namaku pidithavarai kadavul vegamaga namidam irunth petrukolkirar. ....

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