Not being understood is better than being misunderstood
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Happy Diwali!
This Diwali don't forget to light the lamp within you, let it become bigger throughout the year into a flame and burn everything in you that doesn't belong there anymore and let it only burn brighter and brighter and always shine!❤️-
"Don't be kind and nice" she said, 'I was too like that once upon a time.'
I couldn't believe her as the person I saw today was so rude, bitter and tired of "everyone's BS" as she would put it.
I too have been taken advantage of my kindness but I don't want to become her, I don't want to fall into the cycle of people justifying being unkind because others did them wrong.
It's good to stand up for yourself and have healthy boundaries but it's never right to be ruthless.
If you are a kind person keep your circle small, use your head before your heart.-
If you want something from someone, first ask yourself- "would I be willing to give the same". If the answer is no, you don't deserve it either.
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My Mind
My thought of you was much better than you,
I saw the good in you which wasn't there at all.
Letting you go was easier than letting go of all the thoughts of you, of all the what if's.
I tried not to have any expectation from you but I failed.
It was not you who betrayed me, it was my own mind.-
Love unconditionally they said and so I did.
But I was taken advantage of and insulted by doing that so they advised me to put some conditions to be loved unconditionally.
Now that I have all the conditions laid out they say you have too much of a high standard just lower it down.
The lesson I learned is to not listen to others and show yourself the love you want others to show to you, because no one will know how to love you better than yourself.-
Right choice is not always the easy one and that is a test life makes us take on every step of our lives until the right choice comes to us naturally.
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I don't fear death. I fear not learning the things I was supposed to learn, I fear failing, I fear not fulfilling my purpose before my death.
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