To the men who are brought into the world as fighters
prohibited to shed a tear for strength is their middle name
and to the men who bury their fears in trouser pockets for
expression is a price too hefty for them to pay; to the men
who had to grow up faster than time to serve their families
or their country and to the men who had to keep their love
hidden in tie knots, shirt sleeves, army uniforms and berets;s
to the men who carry emergency currency in wallet pockets
and to the men who safeguard the memories of their wives
and children in them; to the men who wear watches with
belts older than their children and to the men who sing
sweet lullabies only to fill the absence of their late wives; to
the men who sleep with loneliness tucked under their
pillows and to the men who feel but never confide; to the
men who love with open hearts and red roses and to the
men who love with locked journals and unsent letters; to the
men who survive societal ironies and to the men who break
the shackles of confinetment to the men who love and
hope, langh and cry, and protect and stay; to the men who
make humanity worth every day, thank you.

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Your second heartbreak

Nobody prepares you for the second time your heart breaks. People assume that healing from your first heartbreak, you would know how to deal with it the second time someone breaks your heart. The second time your heart breaks feels like an old feeling you know except that this time, you've explained to this person everything that took away your sleep, you've told them about your fears and everything about your past. It's heart wrenching when you've explained to this person about all your pain and everything you don't want to feel, only to be taken back to the same old wounds. It's like bleeding from an old wound, the pain gets worse because it's become deeper than before. No one prepares you for this because they think you'll do it really well. The truth is that the second time your heart breaks, you won't let yourself crumble, you won't need to build walls to protect yourself. This time, you'll be a mess, you'll let yourself feel the wreck. And as much as it hurts to go through this again, this time you'll always remind yourself that there's hope, that you'll be able to be happy on your own. Just like the first time, this time too you'll heal.

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When you learn to say "no" to toxic situations,
your whole life changes for the better. You can't keep letting them back in and expect a different result.
When someone isn't meant for you, it'll become apparent with the way they treat you. Their actions
Mean Way More than their words. Remember that.

I didn't love myself enough to say "no"
to you, so each time you came back
knocking, I'd let you back in. Call me a
fool in love, but I felt what we had was
real and that I'd never feel the same
way for anybody else. So, I took you
back time and time again, even though
I knew deep down inside you weren't
good for me. I chose to ignore what my
gut was telling me because I didn't want
to accept that we weren't meant to be.

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You'll Meet a lot people who will convince you
that you're the world to them and then leave.
A lot of people who will talk to you like you're
the Most important part of their day And then
disappear.
You'll Meet lots and lots of people through your
way and then they become ghosts with
Memories.
Only few will stay.
Maybe one or two.
But those people will prove that it's not about
how Many times you Meet.
How Many hours you communicate.
It's just who was there when no one wasn't.
Who was happy when you were happy.
HOLD ON TO THEM!!!❤️

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Can someone please
watch my heart for
a little bit?
It doesn't need much.
A little pat, a little snack,
maybe
a word of love-
it's survived with much less.
It's being a bit unruly
at the moment.
Truth be told a pain in my ass.
Though it behaves
much better for others,
I assure you this.
I just need to get some
bearings
with my soul, a bit of sleep...
And I'm SO tired of its screaming,
fighting with my mind
and cleaning up its
bloody mess.

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Try before giving up and if you give up don't regret.

Before I gave up on you, I gave it my all. I tried
and tried, and tried again, to help you fix what was broken between us. You never cared and would shrug it off as if I was exaggerating, as if I was making a big deal out of nothing. That broke me down further. I was scared of being alone because I wasn't sure how I would function without you when you were all I was used to, and then it hit me. You gave me the best gift of all, a new perspective. I didn't want to feel disappointed, neglected, and unloved anymore. I didn't want to feel as if anything I did wasn't good enough because I deserved to be happy and that meant not settling for crumbs when I could have the whole cake. If you weren't going to make the effort, then I was going to do it for myself by walking away from someone who would never see my worth.

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I'm still trying to learn that a lot of the times, it has
nothing to do with you. People's emotions and mood
and hence their behaviour and attitude, are a simply a
reflection of what they are going through and their
personal life experiences. I'm still trying to grasp the
fact that we shouldn't always feel responsible for
how other people treat us. It's not because there is
something wrong with us, it's just that there is a
greater web of complex emotions behind the scenes
of other people's lives. I'm still trying to accept that
we shouldn't always start pointing fingers at our own
self-worth because of other people's behaviour. It's
not always black and white. Humans are complex,
and we can't always overanalyze the "whys" and
"hows" behind everything people do.

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Periods
O shit! these period cramps are back,, it pains
more bitterly than a heart attack.carry her
periods and smile. This time is considered
very bad,Why are women gifted this kind of
pain. It's a very difficult question,no body can
explain. How can a women every month in a
while, This is what makes me very sad. It is
said that it makes her non-pious. Like really
Indians!!! are u serious? In so much pain to
bear, Don't touch anything, she has to hear.
She still suffers everything and survives,
as she is the mother of many lives. It might
sound horrible, but for women everything is
possible
Really proud to be a woman!!.

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Loving someone is not always about the grand
gestures in life. It is the small Moments that
Make a safe space in one's heart for a lifetime rent-free. The little ways of it, putting in the
extra effort to go by our partner's favourite
bakery, or grabbing their favourite cup of ice-cream on the way home often goes a long way.
It's very wholesome sometimes to cook them
something they like, they walk with them,
switch off the phone for a couple of hours!
when you're or just too close to hear their heartbeat.
Love languages are different for all but the
idea of it is somehow the same in things that
one likes or does. The little everyday surprises
can make someone feel loved and appreciated, letting your partner sleep a little sinking in the them after a day with them. It's simple, sharing conversations,
listening to Music, dancing is a love language.

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REASONS TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN
Because the last time you thought you were in love, it was really
more infatuation.because you're not the same person you were two
years,or six months,or even three weeks ago.because you have so
much to bring to a relationship, and it's okay to want to share that
with someone. because life is too short to allow one person to steal
all of your joy,or your future. because love looks different when it's
being given by someone who genuinely sees you.because your ex
didn't know how to properly care for you, but someone else will.
because you don't need another person to complete you, and you
know that now. because you know so much more than you did back
then.because you've taken the time to heal,even if sometimes you
still remember what the wound felt like.because there are people
who are so excited to discover and adore you, but you have to give
them the chance to do so. because heartbreak is terrible, but it isn't
unsurvivable.because you deserve to be loved in all the ways that
are possible. because you deserve to open your heart again. because
even though we as humans constantly mess things up, love is one of
the things we do so well.

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