Most of my life has been spent trying to shrink myself..~_~
Trying to become smaller. Quieter. Less sensitive. Less opinionated..Less needy..<3..Because
I didn’t want to be a burden. I didn’t want to be too much or push people away. I wanted people to like me..<3 I wanted to be cared for and valued. I wanted to be wanted. So for years, I sacrificed myself for the sake of making other people happy. And for years, I suffered. But I’m tired of suffering, and I’m done shrinking..</3 It’s not my job to change who I am in order to become someone else’s idea of a worthwhile human being. I am worthwhile. Not because other people think I am, but because I exist, and therefore I matter. My thoughts matter. My feelings matter. My voice matters..<3 And with or without anyone’s permission or approval, I will continue to be who I am and speak my truth. Even if it makes people angry. Even if it makes them uncomfortable. Even if they choose to leave..</3 I refuse to shrink. I choose to take up space. I choose honor my feelings. I choose to give myself permission to get my needs met. I choose me..<3 :-)-
It isn't your fault..
Sometimes Brave men *_*
fall in love with cowards..☺-
One day, if He ever does actually give up on you, just know that it took everything in his to do that.:') </3
He's the type of boy who would give you endless chances, try to trust you even after it's been broken time and time again, always have your back even when you're wrong, and accept you <3 for who you truly are even with your many flaws..<3 He's the type of boy who would be there for you when everyone else thinks you're hopeless, be there for you when the rest of the world turns their back on you, <3 and be there for you even when he shouldn't be. He's the type of boy who would fight for you when you don't deserve to be fought for, hold on to you when he should've let you go a long time ago, and love you when he has every reason to hate you..<3 So if he finally reaches that point where he gives up on you, just realize how much it took for him to get to that point and how hard he had to push himself to be strong enough to give up on you <3 because when a boy loves you, giving up is never an option, but at the same time, a boy can only allow himself to get hurt so many times until he's had enough..<3 :-)-
How do you love a broken-hearted
Girl <3
Have a lot of patience. For she is lost, lost in track and in need of your guidance..<3 She acts strong but she isn't. She is so fragile. Why? <3
People in the past damaged her, hurt and left her, and it made her hard and cold. If she needs time for her self, let her. Do not think that she doesn't love you anymore. She needs time for her self..too..<3
Give love like there is no tomorrow, like every minute is the last minute.:')
Efforts— very important. Effort makes her feel that she is special and worthy of your time..<3
Forgiveness— for she will surely make you cry. Make you scream, make you want to give up because of her attitude and mistakes which she doesn't mean at all.. Still forgive her..<3 She doesn't know what she is doing.☺
Lastly, stay. Stay no matter how hard the situation is. No matter how messy things get. You will overcome it. Just stay..<3 Don't be like those people who left her before. Stay, she needs you, she just acts like she doesn't..<3 :-)-
There is no such thing as the "perfect" guy..~_~ Even the nicest guys get mad. Even the most understanding guys get fed up. Even the most loving guys can break your heart..</3 You're never going to meet a guy who isn't going to make a mistake. You're never going to come across a guy who isn't going to upset you at one point or another. You're never going to know a guy who doesn't have something wrong with him. Every guy out there is gonna come with flaws, come with baggage, and come with their own way of showing you that they care, whether it's in a healthy or toxic way..<3 The truth is, every single guy is capable of being sweet and every single guy is capable of being an asshole. When a guy loves you, like truly loves you, you're going to get the best in him because you're the best of him..< So if you have a guy who isn't perfect and you still accept them wholeheartedly for who he, you're able to tolerate him for the kind of man he is, and you're willing to forgive him because he makes you happy just as much as he hurts you, well then you deserve him because not every girl has enough heart to deal with an imperfect guy, but the fact that you do means everything. Thank him..<3 :-)
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Effort *_*
Successful relationships require a lot of effort. Relationships are never perfect. It's something you're gonna have to work on.
But what is the definition of effort?
Effort is not taking you out to dinner and paying for it. It's not picking you up with a car and driving you to certain places. It's not even the random roses on your front door <3
Real effort is going out of your way to make someone feel special <3
It is saving up for a date to make sure it fits in his budget. Effort is keeping you company on the way home even when he doesn't have a car. It's buying you flowers with the little change left in his pocket instead of spending it on things he likes. This is real effort..<3
Sure, some other guy could pay for a date every night. But he's making loads of cash and he's only spending 10% of it on you. Sure that other guy could pick you up and take you to the places you wanna go but he already has a car and that's completely hassle-free. Sure he's buying you bouquets of flowers but what's that compared to the money he makes? Take away the convenience, would he still do it??
True effort is not what you give. It's how much you give compared to what you have.:-) <3
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You never apologized for hurting him, but he apologized multiple times for being angry about it. You never apologized for lying to him, but he apologized countless times for wanting to know the truth. You never apologized for talking to other boys behind him back, but he apologized many times for finding it out on his own. You never apologized for not being there for him when he needed you, but he apologized over and over for expecting you to be. You never apologized for making him jealous of other boys, but he apologized time and time again for letting it affect him. You never apologized for playing him, but he apologized a bunch of times for holding a grudge with you for it. You never apologized for breaking his heart, but he apologized endlessly for caring so much. The point is, why is he always doing the apologizing when he hasn't done anything wrong? Why does he always have to apologize just to you two can get past whatever problems you have? Why does he always have to be the bigger person just so you can move on? he would never do the things you've done to him and yet, he has to be sorry for it, because you're not. Woman up, and apologize..:-) <3
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I am at that place of life..
Where people talks to me or
do not..
i do not care :')☺
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If you cheat on your boy, then you're weak. It means that you're a weak woman. Look, if you're unhappy, then leave. If you're bored, then leave. If you're losing feelings, then leave. You're not supposed to stay while you're unhappy, bored, or losing feelings and cheat on him because that'll only make you feel better temporarily while it will permanently ruin the trust that's been built between you and your boy and that's something that will never come back and even if it does, it's not gonna be the same and it'll be something that his heart really wants to forgive you for, but his mind won't ever let him forget it. Would you like to know why cheating makes you weak, though? It shows that you're insecure, you're easily manipulated, and you aren't strong enough to fight temptation. It displays how you aren't capable of commitment and you don't know how to give loyalty to someone who's given it to you..:')
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