Sexist
I sit next to a guy who keeps talking how I am just not good enough for the seat I acquire, he consistently keeps telling me “you are sitting here because you’re a woman”. I ignore him every time he says something sexist, just reminding myself that you can’t and you don’t have the power to make me feel bad or lose control considering that sexism triggers me as it should anyone in right frame of their mind.
I know he must be quite insecure and have low self-esteem to feel good by belittling others. He doesn’t know a loser like him doesn’t even deserve a reaction from anyone. People who are so full of themselves that they think other people lack something if they don’t react, and are full of toxicity, they don’t rise, they fall. Maybe I will let go of everything you say but not everyone will. And when that someone will speak, you will again say,”she is using women card”, if you can’t respect a person, why should they be the one to tolerate your toxicity.
And when I’ll have a say in your matter, I’ll let you know what I think of you in every sense, professional as well as personal.-
Some people make you believe in love, they make you believe in goodness of people. Some people are selfless lovers, the kind of people love needs to flourish.
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Sometimes wanting a normal life like everyone else feels a burden. We don’t want to live it because we don’t think we would be happy living it, unlike everyone who thinks it is normal to be like majority of people.
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When we can’t have access to the people we have lived with for most of our lives, we try to engage ourselves in the things they used to like. Even if we wouldn’t have done those things otherwise, we would do them now without giving a heed to how we think, because the only memory of them is in the acts; the acts that are now a memory and a relief.
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He is a good man; a man I called a coward for his commitment issues but he was man enough to have my respect for he did not cross the line when he could have. Just a good man for some other woman. Her luck.
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Someone asked,” Why did you give up on him?”
She replied, “because he never asked me to stay”.-
He asked me to marry him, when I told him to end the relationship. He knew I wouldn’t, and that would be the best way to make me feel that I’m responsible for end of the relationship.
I could have said yes. I wanted to. But the reason that held me back was his actions that have shown me how uncaring he is, that he acts according to his convenience.
How can I think of my future with a man who has no concern for my feelings, who is not willing to put my interest above his? How can I assure myself that you love me when your actions, and eyes fail to convey the same? When I don’t see you suffer the way I do?-
May be we know when someone is not meant for us, just like you know what you can have and what you can’t.
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From sprinkler splashes to fireplace ashes
I gave my blood, sweat, and tears for this
I hosted parties and starved my body
Like I'd be saved by a perfect kiss;
Everything you lose is a step you take
So make the friendship bracelets
Take the moment and taste it
You've got no reason to be afraid;
You're on your own, kid
Yeah, you can face this
You're on your own, kid
You always have been.-
Once someone shows you that to them your absence means nothing, you never are able to convince yourself that they may ever have a change of heart. That they can actually be in love with you. And the feeling that they may leave anytime lurks like death, unpredictable but certain.
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