When you look back on your journey, from, where
you were advised to be diplomatic, to,
following your heart, soul,
by being you, raw, authentic.
You have come a long way
In your souls growth.
Be PROUD of yourself for
understanding yourself even
when no-one could,
listening to your heart
even when you felt alone in the whole world,
even when you felt the world is against you.
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Be kind to people who deserve it.
Nowadays people use your kindness
to gain benefits by the time you
understand their motive, it's painful.-
Always make peace with what a
person/people shows you.
Don't take their projections as personal.
People act from their level of understanding and
everyone's growth is happening at their pace.-
Manipulation is a form of abuse.
Maintain emotional, physical distance
from these people.-
It's okay to take sabbatical for your mental health
and later either get back to your career or
choose a totally different path in life.
Reminder :
Do, have some back up or support for
financial sustainability, if possible.-
Stop worrying about problems (e.g. inflation, wars,
news, people's behaviour, actions, etc.)
which are not under your control.
Let go of the problems and free your mind.
Focus on solving problems under your control like
eating healthy food, exercise, meditation, pending tasks,
budgeting, learning life skills cooking, person finance, resourcefulness etc.-
Don't expect things from people
which they can't give to themselves.
(e.g. truth, honesty, support, time,
compassion,listening to understand,
availability, etc.)-
Keep distance from people who are ashamed,
embarrassed with you being with them, as
they cannot accept you as a whole person
with both good and bad sides of you.-
People attack you in a group because
they cannot deal with you on one on one basis.-