No grief is greater than life,
Give your life a chance, and it will heal all the wounds

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You deserve love
You deserve consistency
You deserve to be a priority to someone
You deserve to be valued
You deserve to receive as much as you give
You deserve attention
You deserve to be taken care of
You deserve someone who is sure of you & whom you are sure of
You deserve everything pure that your heart desires, Affirm it!

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Nobody is perfect! Everyone has imperfections.
The question is whom do you allow to see your imperfections..
Who accepts you with your imperfections..
Who lives with you through your imperfections..
Who loves you with your imperfections..
That's what makes two people "perfect" for each other.

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Be Yourself
Don't center your life around others
Center your life around your dreams & the path to achieve those dreams
Those who will really want to be with you,
Will understand & adjust.
Don't give up on your dreams
In order to keep those people whom you fear will leave if you interact less & focus on yourself

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Why do you feel uneasy in a toxic relationship?
Why are you unhappy?
Why does it cause you anxiety?
Why does that person cause you anxiety & unhappiness?
Why does loving him/her, gives you anxiety & depression in return?
It's Because, He/She doesn't love you back! They don't love you the way you love them. Mould yourself in all situations & understand them. They don't put in that amount of efforts. Coz, they don't love you.
They do not care about you. Don't value you.
& You my love, deserve all that love you so freely shower on these people around you.
That's what is meant by saying they're not right for you. Coz, they don't love you.
The person who'll love you, would know you enough to make sure that you do not feel anxious or unhappy in any situation, because of them. That they mean a lot to you & their efforts should be to make your life easier, atleast try to change their toxicity if there is, so that it doesn't make you anxious.
Then only they love you.
Otherwise they don't & therefore are NOT right for you.
And there, you have your closure from the relationship in front of you! Congratulations!

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Have you ever felt so alone
That food was your only true friend?

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The only mistake I did in my relationships before was to allow people to have access to my vulnerabilities & innocence & love so so easily
They started taking it all for granted,
Taking my love for granted.
Now I know the importance of allowing people to EARN their places in my Life.
I Have Elevated my love for myself so much
That Only if you can Value me that much I Value myself,
You can Earn me...

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I'm proud,
I'm proud to be a person with a heart, in this heartless world
I'm proud to be real, Real in this world full of pomp & show
I'm proud to have that child within me alive, where in this world, all we see is a bunch of people trying to camouflage themselves with maturity
I'm proud to be irrational in this world of people trying to fake sanity
I'm proud to be able to still love unconditionally, when in this world..there's a condition & purpose of anything & everything received or given..
I'm proud of my innocence, in this malicious & selfish world
I'm proud, proud that I'm a lotus, growing beautifully in this mud around us, that we call, our society, our sorroundings, this world!

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You'll get a lot of people to be with you during your highs & happy days of your life..to just stand by your side & keep smiling & laughing..
During the days when you have something to give them in return..
When you are of some work to them..
But
Those who put in efforts & are there by your side, Consistently, during the days when you are nothing,
When you are low,
When are at your worst,
When you have nothing to give them in return..
Are the ones who truly deserve you.

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Attention is easy to give..
Care takes effort & willingness....
It's not aroused by sudden gratifying, easy to see, coming across your path content..
It takes your thoughts & genuine wishes to see the person & check on them....
Look for the signals of who can go out of their ways to Care for you...
& Who's Attention you see or perceive as Care! Watch out & take care :)

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