No lesson....

Not all traumas were caused by mistakes that require a lesson to avoid repeating them. In fact, most serious traumas weren't mistakes on the part of victim.
So,let's stop telling trauma servivors that they must learn a lesson from their experiences .
Sometimes there is no lesson ,the most they can do is to heal.

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' We are Just Friends '

I know that i don't own you
and perhaps i will never ,
I know you also don't owe me
and i shouldn't ask for more,

What i feel ,i shouldn't show you
So when you're around I won't ,

I know I've no right to feel it ..
But it doesn't mean I don't.

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Don't fall for sweet words
Fall for sweet efforts ....
Because,
At the end , Promises are just words....

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It's hard to turn the page when you know someone won't be in the next chapter,
but the story must go on..
To heal a wound , you need to stop touching it !!

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Privacy !!

The older i get ,The more i realize the value of privacy ,of cultivating your circle and only letting certain people in .
You can be open , honest and real while still understanding that not everyone deserve a seat at the table of your life .

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Adjust your focus !!

Life is so ironic .
It takes sadness to know what happiness is ,noise to appreciate silence and absence to value presence.

A year ago, everything was different.
Everything offered was like 👉'Where shall i go ?'
To the left where nothing's right,or, to the right where nothing's left?

But now when i look back ,i realize that a year can do a lot to a person.

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After a while ....⚖️

After a while you learn the subtle differences
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much ,
So plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring flowers.

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If i had a second chance...

If i had a second chance ...
I'd do the things i wish i had
To let her know how much i cared.

If i had second chance....
I'd thank her for the things she had done
To make differences in my life.

If i had a second chance ...
I'd let her know how much it meant
To gaze upon her smiling face .

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Unplug 🔌!!
Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minute.
Including you ..

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The Untold Story

It is both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so deeply.Really..Nothing haunts us like the things we don't say .
It's funny, you know?
How people won't listen until you have nothing left to say .
There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you .
Enjoy the silence !!

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