Someone- Aaj Mother's Day pe maa ke liye kya kiya?

Me:- Mein paida hui, isliye toh woh maa bani. Mera kaam khatam.

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INSIGHT

Even if your life is centered around in-built situations you didn't choose for yourself, it is necessary that you spend a significant amount of time and effort to deal with it, fix it and even rise above it.Some have mental stress, some have family they can't exit, some have physical challenges issues, some have by-defaukt livelihood or lifestyle issues. Nobody chose all of these of them. May be if they had a chance, they would choose different set of problems for themselves to deal with. But hey, choice or not, your life has value. I'm sorry u had to go through this without prior notification/permission but a way out is always available to you. A choice is always to be found. May be this is how you are to find your journey. Believe me, after all this y still can do good to yourself and others around you.

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IS ONE ENOUGH?
We all have a different friend for every kind of feeling. A friend for gossip, another for deep thoughts, another for coffee. But why does it hurt sometimes when YOU are a friend of only ONE aspect to someone else? Why do we end up saying- "so it's time you remembered me?"
When you are hurt and insufficient from the inside, every relationship will lack something in your eyes. But once you realize that everything is in suffice within this very self, being a friend even for just one aspect or half an aspect to someone else can even seem like a bonus, a treat.

"If you don't heal from people who hurt you, you will bleed on people who didn't cut you."

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Judgements are very much alike examination paper. A teacher shall award you marks basing on both- what you write and what you don't write. In similar terms, one can form an image of you basing on what you say and what you don't. So don't complain if you got misjudged. Might have been something you said or more interestingly, something you didn't which you should have.

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I love how Agnes loves Unicorns so much so, that it can make u question your 'so called fact' that says-'unicorns don't exist'. Did u ever feel like despite whatever age, there is an Agnes inside you who wants that unicorn so much, believes in it so much that she charges u straight up with - "Just because u haven't seen it doesn't make it non-existent!".Life would have been so much easier if Agnes and you were just different persons. Life would have been so much different if the question was ------ "Black OR White"?

P.S- It's a "Despicable me" reference.

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Why is that when we go bed, we get second thoughts on matters that we dismissed so easily in the light of the day and ensured ourself that it never mattered in the first place?

We felt a bit distanced when others seem so effortless, and it takes us a not even a moment to declare that I never needed anyone anyway.

Even after tons of Instagram posts on self love, why do we still seek validation from every human around us?

Why do we only have to select between nothing or everything ?

Why does 'friendship' that is supposed to the best relation, give us such worst of emotions?

Why does it have the power to shatter an otherwise beautiful day to flames of ash that pained us in every way?

Why does one have to look at the answers one already said to self a million times before?

Who is at fault anyways? Who is the accused anyways? Who is the victim anyways? What is the solution anyways?

At the end of the day, being happy is more important than the process of understanding and being understood.

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Sometimes, you come across people whom the more you know the more you hate. Now we are taught not to hate, but at the same time, when you see these people, their mentality, their complicacy, their actions which are downright garbage not only you not like them but also start to dislike them. Being regularly around with them, if unchecked, can lead to toxicity. It becomes thereby even more important to not let them get to you.

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"A smiling face always doesn't show acceptance. A crying face can also be a proof that accepting the -'it's okay' is in process. Hence,the most beautiful face is one that smiles with tears rolling on the cheeks."

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MY FIFTY METRE LONG DISTANCE FRIENDSHIP

Yes, it was not more than 50 metre that we stood apart.
Of course we had a part of each others heart.

Our friendship just began from an unexpected pocket call,
"Hey, how are you?" And that's all !
Days later,something broke my heart and I didn't know who to talk to
Scrolled my contact list, and tried you too !!
It was a surprising one hour long talk
All about friendship, heart breaks and love.

Till then, I believed it's only the quality of a relationship that matters.
But it's certainly only complete when the quantity of time you spend shows your efforts.

Okay fine. I was jealous.
Jealous of you spending most of your time with others.

I knew it was independent of the bond we shared, hence there was no fight.
But deep down something didn't feel alright.

I was over thinking, I guess.
But it was not any kind of race.

As I said, it takes effort.
And when I see you surprising me from behind, it feels a whole lot.

And there I see you, just about fifty metres from me
You and I, both busy with different people.

We greet each other with a smile
Because some friendships are worth while.

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What hurts the most?

I see life is so beautiful
Only when you stay cheerful
They say happiness is a way of life, just like your breath,natural and always.
But I still haven't learnt to smile
Especially when one is too fragile.

I look at you,think about you,yet I might be just a visual stimulus to you.
But it always strikes me where did I possibly go wrong?
I see others enjoying the same from your colleagues too, no efforts required for them, no emotion to initiate the same.
Why is it just not you?

There you go so perfectly!
I bet you can never know it's for you, even if you read it a zillion times!!!!!

Seems like your world is too big
And there I stand , wishing to get fit.

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