Their is no meanings of Stability without energy and exposure. Without energy everything will be stable. Without exposure life will reduce. Full exposure with energy and stability is of highest value.
If you want to learn then simply, Reduce importance to your identity. Open yourself completely, Approach everyone and everywhere Some people will understand Some other would laugh at you Just pay attention to everything World will open to you.
When you interact very often with people You may find many of them be joyful and loving. Don't try to bound yourself with people, Just leave them the way they are.
Once you take decision in clear state of mind with clarity. Then follow the steps. No matter how worst you have to go through, Because that is only way. Otherwise you will be lost forever.
Emotion is very powerful tool. Mind changes easily with time, But emotion holds you longer. Use emotion to attach yourself to things, in which you want to invest your life.