If you stop expecting people's opinions to always be in your favor,
you win!!
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And disseminating some exp... read more
Is there any reason for sometimes
when you feel so dumb,
Everyone's there, and suddenly these
happy eyes feel so numb,
The way you were, and what you have become,
Feeling wise sometimes, sometimes young,
Being Loud sometimes, sometimes hum,
Perplexed sometimes, sometimes run.
Sometimes being this useless, umm, how come?
Its scary sometimes, sometimes fun,
From Oh I was busy, to I am done.
From brewing hot coffee to having gum,
I was not being honest to overcome
From many many candies, to no, hell none,
From praying everytime to everytime glum.
From facing things and change,
your inner self needs time to bunk,
Bunk from society, bunk from days,
everytime it sucks, you should better say.
Say yourself, that you are gonna slay.
Neither today, nor tomorrow,
but definitely one day!!
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If someone is not behaving as you want them to behave, please!
Have a look on your behaviour, are you trying to control their life
or thoughts or emotions or ever tried to control their friend circle!?
Or are you disrespecting their boundaries or trying to
humiliate their natural nature.?!
Or are you acting immaturely??
Or trying to make them count their faults everytime
you meet or contact them??
Or are you trying to guilt trap them( trying to make them feel guilty
for straight 3 days after having conversations with them)??
Or are you trying to make them feel sorry everytime you meet them
and at the same time praise them, so that you don't sound negative??
If this is you, its preferred to try to become a better version of yourself
and try to understand a person as they are, not as you are.
Explore yourself a bit more.
Try to expand your way of thinking.
Stop thinking for just surface level things.
Dive deeper.
Every person is a different being with
different experiences and different
perspectives of same things.
{If not, do the same!!!}-
That's the most adorable thing, when you know that your closest friend is there for you at your lowest points and she's keeping a check on you to know whether you are okay or not, if not, she tries cracking jokes to make you smile.❣️
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You start chanting "I lost it, I lost it", why not be grateful for the things which are left with you, which might or might not be more significant but worth appreciating its existence rather than mourning for the lost one!!
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ये वही दुनिया है
जहां अपनों की कीमत का अंदाजा तो नहीं
पर गैरों को मन से अपनाया जाता है।
यहां रोलर कोस्टर जैसी ज़िन्दगी को
हंस के मक्खन बताया जाता है।
यहां कोई अपने ही दर्द को बड़ा समझता है
और कोई मज़ाक अपने गमों का भी उड़ाता है।
अच्छे लोगों की कमी नहीं है यहां
पर अपने मन का दुखड़ा कोई हर किसी को
नहीं सुनाता है।
यहां लोगों को धर्मों में बांटा जाता है
कोई आरती, तो कोई नमाज़ें गाता है।
वहां ऊपर कोई बैठा है, जो सबकी नइया
पार लगाता है
जिसे भरोसा है उस पे, वो खुद को
भली भांति जान जाता है।
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Why is it so, that people misinterpret your strength with coldness, if you try to be stronger than you were what's wrong with that, because we are beholding strength with a purpose, and those people who misjudge you can never see the pain and torments you hold inside that tougher looking exterior or that straight cold face or that laughter or that smile you fake!!
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