The most painful lessons are the ones that you need the most. So then, thank the universe for these with all your heart.
And, reflect within till you get the answer,
What it is that the universe wants you to learn.
The ones who caused a churn in the innermost recesses of your soul are the ones you thank the most; for they drew out of you the "dirt", the feelings, which were hidden and caused you to suffer, so you could finally see these feelings for what they are and do the work to get rid of them from your life.
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