We will be happy🥂
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We will not do it in exchange of hurting other feelings, but we will learn to priortise ourselves. Our feelings, our thoughts, our words, our emotions will be valued.
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Let's promise, along with pleasing them, the other people, this 2022 we will speak it out. We will be seen, we will be heard.
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And then, we always end up getting hurt, we end up unseen,unheard. We soak our pillow in midnight, thinking all that might have happened if we would have spoken up, thinking it might have been better, or worse. At least they are happy by us being leftout.
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We always put in too much of effort in everything to make sure it is all in place. We listen to what they have to say, we try to understand what they are going through,we care from the core, we wanna make sure they do not get hurt.
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What if we tell them about how we feel and they get hurt? What if they react if they don't bother about something that's bothering us? What if they stop caring after knowing about our feelings? What if they leave? What if !!!
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In the process of making others happy we the people pleaser tend to forget how much we hurt ourselves in this process. The what ifs keeps messing our head!
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As long as it makes you happy, it doesn't have to make sense to others.
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