The greatest boon that can exist in substantial is A PEACEFUL MIND.
A mind that can realize the good things around and focuses upon the positivity.
A mind that can forget the odds offered by others and do not remorse on its own past errs.
A mind that is free from jealousy, hatred and comparisons.
A mind that believes in almighty and itself and is courageous enough to pave its own path.

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Deprived of love and care at an early age, a person becomes parched and vulnerable. He falls prey to false emotional attention and deceived intentions,very easily. Such persons are so indulged in their partners that they trust them blindly and shares every dropped beat of heart with them,but that partner might not have undergone the same circumstances in his life,he might have got plenty of resources to love and attention, which is by the way absolutely amazing, but this is when the mess starts growing.




— % &One person becomes so passionate for love and lover, that he overlook everything else, on the other hand, the one who has never faced the scarcity of love, care, attention, continues to take his spouse for granted and prioritize everything else over him. — % &There is now this person, who left everyone behind, shut down all the channels of emotional expressions, looking forward to his partner's love as the only saviour,hoping for the dreamy life, he always dreamt of, and expecting the highest form of love.
Contrary to this the other person who is not longing for this amount and kind of love, keep on neglecting, overhearing, the emotions and want of empathy, coming from the other side. — % &This doesn't mean that the love never existed, it did,when it was budding,fresh,and separate. It started getting diminished as the expectations for the family catering surpassed the personal love intensity. It started degrading, when one was made to cry as the result of his loyalty and genuinity, it grew toxic, when the attachment with others kept thriving and the new fragile relation that needed ample of assurances,and strength of affirmations, was awarded solitude. — % &No one can ever be completely right or wrong and the world cannot be judged as black and white, but sometimes you don't need to judge anything, especially for the one with whom you took vows of forever love, if you are not going to accompany your spouse, who else will? You made promises, to handle them with care and compassion, you were always aware of their needs, issues, shortcomings and insecurities. All other family members love you because you all have got same blood and lived together under the guidance of same parents, but your spouse, they come from an entirely different world having different lingual patterns and a whole set of different emotions and sensitivity index. — % &When you fell for them, you assured them to be always by their side, to always have their back, to support and save them from all external humdrums, that may help them to concile in your family, but man, you became another of the battles, your spouse fought every single day, thanks to your negligence and obscurity. — % &When you forgive your family for insulting your spouse, and do not utter a single word against them apparently ,in support of your partner, then why you make your other half cry when they are really in pain and want you to assemble and cater them, why don't you support your spouse blindly? why don't you put their happiness at the top?why don't you make them clear with conviction, of your love for them? Why?
Did they not choose you over them and everything that belonged to them? Then why can't you? — % &

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A grand and heartful salute to all the pretty ladies out there, this world exists out of your existence, cherish your day and fill it with the same magical zeal and confidence that makes you and everything around you, exquisite and charismatic ❤️

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From
Falling prey to random commotions
To
Dealing successfully with emotions
I realised the strength of solitude.
From
Desperately craving for someone's attention
To
Strongly ignoring as part of fake pretention
I realised the impact of correct attitude.
From
Consenting external intrusion into my inner peace
To
Paying last penny for self happiness fees
I found clarity in crude.
From
Ironing other's insecurity creases
To
Nurturing all the way ,self worth peaches
I found the right flight of mood.

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अपनी उम्मीदों की उलझन में भूल गई कि तुम्हें भी तो मेरी जरूरत थी
समझती तुम्हें भी मैं जिनमें .....कुछ हालातों की ऐसी भी तो सूरत थी
हमारे किस्से में किरदार तो दोनों का ही बराबर था
फ़िर भी तुम पर उसे ज़्यादा निभाने का दबाव.. ....ग़लत सरासर था
अरमां अगर कुछ मेरे थे, तो कुछ हसरतें तुम्हारी थीं
पूरा करने की जिन्हें, ज़िम्मेदारी.... बेशक़ हमारी थी
फ़िज़ूल की बातों के मलाल में कई हसीन पल कुर्बान हुए
पर देर से ही सही इश्क के फ़रिश्ते हम पर फ़िर मेहरबान हुए
तो फिर चलो हटा दें इस धूल की चादर को अपनी मोहब्बत की तस्वीर से
और चुरा लें अपने हिस्से की खुशियां , वक़्त के पलों में जकड़ी तक़दीर से

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निभाने के लिए साथ किसी का, खुद को अकेला न करना कभी
कल दिखेगा खड़ा गैरों की भीड़ में, अपना लग रहा है जो अभी

ये कुर्बानी तुम्हारी इक दिन बेशक ज़ाया हो जाएगी
उनके अपनों के आगे , तुम्हें तुम्हारी औकात दिखाई जाएगी

छोड़ दोगे महफिलें जिसकी खातिर, वही शख्स तन्हाई देगा
रोशनी दोगे जिसे अपनी जिंदगी की सारी, वो बस परछाईं देगा

जिसके हर दर्द में होगे शामिल, वजह बनेगा वही तुम्हारे ज़ख्मों की
सच्ची मोहब्बत किताबी है जनाब! मोहताज है बस ये नज़्मों की

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भटके हुओं को, गुमराह ही रहने दो
भूले हुओं को, फना ही रहने दो

आंखें भिगो देंगे ये मिलकर दोबारा
छूटे हुओं को, जुदा ही रहने दो

किस्से वो पुराने उभर आयेंगे
जहां से मुड़ चुके कदम, फिर उधर जायेंगे
वक्त की धूल से ढके हुओं को, धुंधला ही रहने दो

शामियाने सजते थे जहां,हालेदिल बयां होते थे
मुलाक़ात के बहाने थे, पल भी सदियां संजोते थे
वीरान पड़े उस अरसे को , शिकवा ही रहने दो
ढहे हुए शामियानों को, बिखरा ही रहने दो

गिर गए पत्ते हरे होते हुए भी,
बेगाने बने बसेरे , अपने होते हुए भी
जिंदगी की शाख से टूटे हुओं को, अब बिछड़ा ही रहने दो
बस नहीं सकते दोबारा जो आशियाने, उन्हें उजड़ा ही रहने दो

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Another day that starts with another WHY?
The psalm of women's life can never be written without the full stops and commas of WHY?
Why are only the women supposed to be superhumans?
Why is every task awarded to penalize her mental health?
Is it compulsory that a woman should be proficient in art and culture or cooking or household chores or family responsibilities?
Can't she be just a human with all the beauty of errs and flaws?
Why can't anyone accept her the way she is?And go fly with her expertise, then whether it be in studies, teaching, art and culture or house making.
— % &Damn the mentalities and people who started these so-called male dominant societies.
On what basis did they decide that women are just to get married and take care of family and children, that they are incapable of acquiring equality,why only women are to be separated from their old parents and serve any one other's parents who never ever can be satisfied. That had been the solid reason that no one ever wanted a girl child.
People themselves wrote our destinies and then blamed us for the same.
What a paradox!
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Quality time has itself became time bound. People who once promised you to be there beside you timelessly counts moments when they accompanied you.
FOREVER and ever is an absolute myth, that has been deceiving us lately. It's just the momentary rush of emotions and the current need, that generates in them the illusionary concept of being there forever, despite they will only pretend to be present beside you and you will continue to consider their hypothetical attendance FOREVER .

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Insecurities overwhelm when there is no outlet
Judgement of your loved ones can make u anonymously fret
When sleeping over issues is getting repeated
Though they are not intended, yet you feel cheated
Your self confidence and respect are reducing for a surprise
Your wholesome emotional being, is lonely paying price
It's high time to leave, distract yourself from these detractors immediately
Don't let your inner peace and personality be demolished deliberately

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