I am the most Insecurely secure person you'll ever meet.
The Insecurity you saw was a deliberate attempt made in exchange for clarity,
The indifference that followed was the security you never got to see, you were never meant to!

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With Motherhood you also welcome a different kind of loneliness,
Suddenly you seem to become invisible to people,
Your partner is emotionally and physically distant
Your Relatives only ask and talk about the child,
Your own parents have found a new soul where they pour in all the love and resources they can gather,
You have abandoned the physical trauma your body has endured and barely have time to look after your emotional needs.
Postpartum sadness is not because of lack of hormones, it's due to lack of
care and understanding !

_Behind the scene

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Your role in a woman's life has come to end when she subconsciously starts imagining someone else rescuing her from the troubles thrown at her face without a warning, without a solution, painful and suffocating.
You'd lost her to a conjured Man who looks nothing like you,
because you weren't Man enough to do,
what was required of you

_Lost and Never Found

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Being a Good son isn't a parameter of virtue these days, Being an equally good husband and a responsible father is,and some people don't like this change.

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Fitting your home with appliances which will ease your partner's life after marriage isn't enough, learn to counsel your existing family's fears, concerns, insecurities, expectations,changes bound to happen before promising happiness to your love.

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When you've known the language of Neglect since childhood,you might never understand the language of love,care and concern later as an adult...

_Trauma bonding

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Thank your parents and your stars
If you had the privilege of not knowing the price of the food you were served,
The hospitalization cost everytime you'd fallen sick,
Or the price of clothes you'd been provided with.
Because from what I have seen even parents can be heavily calculative while providing for the children they themselves have created out of pleasure and never out of love!!
Thank your parents right now!
I just thanked mine..

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Give me a house where I decide the wall color and the style of furniture,
Give me a place where I get to cook for my guests while serving them in the cutlery of my choice,
Give me the space to organize parties for the people I like and the authority to bar people who try to upstage me near my own family,
Give me a roof over my head that neither my parents have a stake in nor my in-laws,
Give me the right where i raise tiny humans
Who look and behave just like you,for you.
Give me a home..
Give me a home..

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A good-looking woman never chooses a good-looking man for two reasons-
Firstly,You require a submissive partner and not another competitor!
Secondly, a man obsessed with his own good looks can never make money in the long run..

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Deleting people from my life comes easy to me,
I'm not cold, just a person heavily ruled by Saturn.


_No.8

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