For giving more chances
To the one who breaks
Your heart
And
Your trust...-
For being too caring
Too emotional,
Too soft to others
And too hard on ourselves...
-
When you said, "Yes"
Remember
It was not just a "Yes"
It was the promise for lifelong
To take care of each other's needs
To provide the sense of security
To assure adjustment of the moods
To approve the emotional tides
It was not just a "Yes"
And you keep on ignoring each other's needs
Forget about providing security
Do things as per your mood only
Label one as too emotional or a fool
As it's not just a "Yes"
And if you assume that it's just a "Yes"
And you can't put in efforts
And unwilling to try different ways to make your relationship work
Then don't say "Yes"
As it can break a pure soul to the dust...
-
Where I can be in any mood
In any attire,
Without being hated and judged...
But my own insecurity
Makes me to stay away
From you...-
Sorry dear...
It's not easy to say YES today
As today is the same day
When I said YES 13 years ago...
And I kind of regret...
Saying YES is not just a YES
It is a commitment
A promise, that can be valuable
To someone more than his life...
-
_6th June
Reminds me many things
And brings the wave of emotions
Into my heart and eyes...
Some good memories,
Some bitter moments,
Some heart warming events,
Some heartbreaking times...
But what churns my heart
Are the
Broken dreams
Broken expectations
And
Myself, that's not like me at all...-
At times when you are done
With continuously explaining
Yourself, you start questioning
Yourself,
"Where did I go wrong?
Whatever efforts I put, weren't
Those enough?
Was I too less or too over? "
And endless self-doubts...
People around you, will also
Make you feel that it might be
your loophole that something
Didn't work...
Stop explaining, stop expecting that people will understand you... It's your journey, your pain, your tears...
Don't judge them for not understanding you, it's just that they didn't walk in your shoes...-
Children won't tell you that
They are in distress
But
They will show you in the form of
Tantrum, anger or
Simply by sitting alone...
"Steps to manage distress in your child"-