Obsession is not love. Infatuation is not love. When someone ignores you
or treats you poorly, carelessly, or with indifference that’s not love, that’s a lack of love for yourself, for trying to fill your missing pieces with theirs. But when someone is whole and you are whole and you act in kindness and benevolence, vulnerability through strength, love becomes an exchange
with another person and that is
its truest form.

- Nickel.ly👸