Sometimes you forget to pause and see yourself!

Look at you-How did you forget the strength within?
The way you have made it to the goal even in the dark, climbed tough peaks, pushed through emotional storms, faced every fear?

How did you forget the way you kept moving forward, year after year?

Keep going, keep shining even now.

You’ve opened every door, you’ve battled hard,
you’ve found your way once, you will find it again.
You deserve the world you are meant for more!

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Starting or ending connections is simple.

Have you tried to commit to making them stand the test of time?

Well that's genuine effort!

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And maybe we are separated by distance, we are separated by time

As the time ticks right, the distance will dissolve in the star dust of the universe

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If you know how to understand and listen to someones silence you will know how to understand and listen when they are yelling

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The deepest hesitation to let ourselves be vulnerable enough to commit deeply again comes from the unwavering trust and commitment that was easily shrugged off in the past

Appreciate the ones who still chooses to stay by your side through your hesitation because they are the ones that you should fight your own battles of painful past

Pov: We are all broken but just at different levels

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And sometimes life feels so strange
Sometimes we feel so confident about ourselves and sometimes everything feels at stake
We miss ourselves, we miss our favourite person , we miss our favourite place, food, memories, the old us.....and a lot of things but we still fight to love the new us as we accept why we have become this person

I remember two sweet girls asking me
'How do you Love yourself so much' that question really hit me hard....!

Umm it's not like I love myself everyday and every moment....!
There are times when I feel I'm worth everything and there are days when I question my demands
There are times I feel like going against everything and everyone and there are times when I put everyone else ahead of me
There are times I look into the sky, feel the cold breeze touch my face and still feel unpleasant
There are times I enjoy my body aches due to stress
My self love is not constant...... I doubt myself, I hate myself and my self esteem is very low on some days
but everyday I wake up with a hope that I'm going to love myself a little more on these bad days because I alone can love myself better than anyone else

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"Go with the flow, you will find a perfect partner" they said
But I learnt that "stand up and be counted" is what defines me and that nothing is so beautiful and perfect
But what's beautiful is how much effort someone wants to put in for you

I might be the odd one but I'm learning to love myself

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You deserve love that comes with no taglines and conditions

You deserve love that will help you evolve into better version of yourself while you are still loved for your flaws and vulnerabilities

You deserve love where you feel safe and confident

You deserve love where someone will never give up on you for miscommunications or misunderstandings

You deserve love where someone can hold on to you and fight for you through tough times

Darling, it's not a fairytale! such love exist
Listen to this again, such love existi!
Just learn to find where you belong!

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People always say "they don't deserve you" to keep you happy!
but darling, the fact is no one deserves anyone in this world!
two people deserving of each other is about them deciding to stop chasing anyone else except each other

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It's not about finding a perfect one
It's about finding someone who is as imperfect as I'm but willing to make it perfect for both of us

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