Listen up, these three kind of people
should not get married !
Should not marry anyone on earth !

1. People Pleasers
2. Mumma's Boy/Papa's boy/Siblings' Boy
3. Whose work nature/their own nature won't support them to give even little amount of Quality time to their partner.

Please Don't marry anyone !
Don't ruin anyone's life !
Don't waste anyone's time and Energy !
These kinda People neither deserve
a life partner nor deserve their own children,own family.

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Remember when you please your wife
for the sake of Allah,
You're The Best among people !
When you please people,
You are The Worst.
Coz while pleasing people,
You need to fix your personality
with different persons and
you'll end up yourself
as a Hypocrite.
🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Where there's No Mercy
towards your wife,
Definitely There'll be No Love !
And No Peace !

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கட்டளையாகக்கூட கூறவில்லை.
ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளுங்கள் !
ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளுங்கள்!
ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளுங்கள் !
என திரும்பத்திரும்ப வேண்டுகோளாக , கருணை காட்டுங்கள்,
பரிவோடு நடந்து கொள்ளுங்கள் என தனது உம்மத்துக்கு ரசூலுல்லாஹி ஸல்லல்லாஹ் அலைஹி வஸல்லம் அவர்கள் எத்துனை முறை கூறியிருப்பினும்
மனிதன் விளங்கிக்கொள்வதே இல்லை ! சுப்ஹானல்லாஹ் அல்லாஹ் பாதுகாத்தவர்களை தவிர ! எனதருமை சகோதரர்களே சுப்ஹானல்லாஹ் அல்லாஹ் உடைய தூதர் இந்த மொத்த உலகிற்கும் தலைவர் ஸல்லல்லாஹ் அலைஹி வஸல்லம் உங்களிடம் இந்த அளவிற்கு வேண்டுகோள் வைக்கவேண்டுமா ???!!!

பெண்களிடம் நல்ல முறையில் நடந்து கொள்ளுங்கள் என உங்களுக்கு நான் உபதேசிப்பதை ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளுங்கள். ஏனெனில், பெண்கள் (வளைந்த) விலா எலும்பிலிருந்து படைக்கப்பட்டுள்ளனர். விலா எலும்பின் மிகக் கோணலான பகுதி அதன் மேல்பகுதியாகும். அதை நீ (பலவந்தமாக) நிமிர்த்திக் கொண்டே போனால் அதை நீ ஒடித்தே விடுவாய். அதை அப்படியே நீவிட்டுவிட்டால் கோணலுள்ளதாகவே அது நீடிக்கும். எனவே, பெண்களிடம் நல்ல முறையில் நடந்து கொள்ளுங்கள் என உங்களுக்கு நான் உபதேசிப்பதை ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளுங்கள்.
என அபூ ஹுரைரா(ரலி) அறிவித்தார். 120
ஸஹீஹ் புகாரி : 5186.
அத்தியாயம் : 67. திருமணம்

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Sometimes You may see some people,
Even In their small actions,
there's no trace of their NOBLE SAYINGS !
Nothing relevant to their actions
and to their sayings !
If you're seeing someone's room neat,
Have a look at their toilet too !
There might be a pile of left dirty clothes
after many baths and their might be
unflushed toilets for a long time !
I'm sincerely requesting the
people who are seeing these words !
I'm not saying "Don't Compare !"
But saying "Compare Fairly !"
Considering all the things by weighing equally their options,privileges and their situations ! Please uh !

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When someone is feeling
down and fearful,
I gave my shoulders,
At times my chest
to lie upon and snivel over,
But when I'm feeling bad,
They are nowhere!
I like to offer which I
like for myself, to others !
I don't wanna even grieve people which
I hate when it is done to me by others !
I don't wanna embarrass them in public
even asking anything about their problem
in which they are got involved even
about which I know very well !
I don't wanna be Nosy in
others' problems,
But they do !
They do in my life !
Ya Allah,
I don't have any idea why it is
happening to me again and again !?!
I'm just drinking water and
minding my own business !
Why Allah ?
Why ?

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May Allah let me loot a huge amount
of good deeds on doomsday....
Ameen ya rabbil aalameen....

Yaar, People are ready to work hard and to give their good deeds to me,
Just by backbiting about what
they see in me for a moment !!!
Allah saw what happent
a moment ago !
But you don't !

Oh wow ! Subhanallah !

Say Ameen to this supplication,
Angels will be saying to you
"Have the same !" 😇😉

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Whatever you hear about me
without knowing anything,
Without even listening to my side,
Without even someone is facing daily,
Whenever you see me for a moment,
Just Believe it, I say !

Allah is sufficient to me !
He's counting on me !
Watching me 24hrs !
Looking at my heart !
Looking at my wounds !
Looking at my deeds !
Seeing my tears flow down my cheeks !
Hearing my pleas !
I hope Allah will give me the rewards
for the things i'm going through now
on the doomsday ! In Shaa Allah !

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Sunnah says "Show kindness towards your wife !",
"Treat her well with the fear of Allah !"

Culture says "I'm a Man. I'm Elder.
I dont do these kinda works,
i dont do those kinda works. I'm a Male ! I'm ur Husband ! I'm earning ! I cant be humble !"

Then what if Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam thinks haughtily "I'm Allah's Last prophet ! I'm the Leader of this whole world ! I'm mentoring people. Why should i do these petty domestic works ? Why should i show mercy towards my wife ? Why should i help her ?? ".

*BUT HE DINT THINK LIKE THAT!*
MAN OF SIMPLICITY
SUBHANALLAH
Bukhari Hadith no. 5363

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When someone is needing your help,
But you are ignoring,
keep praying or reciting qur'an
or doing any Ibadha,
BUT IT'S NOT IBADHA !

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