YOU MATTER.
Not the relationship you share with others,
just YOU.
Not you as a sister, as a daughter, as a wife,
Just you as a 'human being' matter.
Not you as a brother, as a son, as a husband,
Just you as a 'human being' matter.
You are someone.
Your one word of kindness can make someone's day,
Your fingerprints of kindness won't be forgotten so easily.-
How to love a woman who is at war with herself?
don't try to save her..you can't...she eventually will save herself because she was always going to.
when she tells you that she fears that the sky atop her home will turn to a volcano anytime, don't tell her to wait for the rainfall. believe in her.
observe the little things she does. the way she gets cautious when she laughs because she thinks she is being too loud, observe how she doubts her reactions because she thinks she's being too emotional.
tell her, her voice has a calming effect. caress the back of her hand.
there are times when she'd be happy for no reason, when she'd break into tears for reasons you can't understand. both of these shades are the waves in the oceans she carries inside her. one day she'll reach the shore.
to love a woman who's at war with herself, you do enter the battlefield...but you just stand there while she slaughters her own demons.
~M.b.i-
Treat women as humans,
not as objects.
Can't believe this needs to be told.
Women are not in this world for your evil, grotesque, sexual release.
They are HUMAN BEINGS.-
Foolish things hurt you,
serious things amuse you?
You are like the pleasant smell of old books,
strangely sweet, strangely familiar, yet unknown.
This unfilled void, the void which had you, it had me, it had us,
but now,
there will be serpents curlerd around every hair of my head,
my eyes might be pierced by red hot iron spikes.
After such sinfulness, what mercy?
Today I feel like my shadow, filled with darkness, yet empty.
What a paradox am I?
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~leaving notes-
we can't say prevention is better than cure because in this case, precaution is the cure
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All men are not the same, neither are all women the same.
It's your character, your upbringing and most importantly the people you spend time with that develops/ destroys your character.
The types of clothes you wear don't imply the character you possess, your age doesn't define your mentality or experience.
Building boys right today is better than repairing broken men tomorrow
AND
building girls right today is better than repairing broken women tomorrow.
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It's not only the old aged people who deserve respect, give respect irrespective of age, financial status and social status.
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The cuts on my wrists and the arms
and the scars on my forearms.
I told you how I felt,
this isn't easy to be dealt.
Thank you for your concern,
I expected better care in return.
"You're okay" , "Just be positive" is what you said,
would you say too, "It's all in your head"?.
They don't understand what is it like
now it's time to wait for death to strike-
If love was as strong as hate;
We would have a tough time differentiating
Between the scars of love and hate
BUT as love is not as strong as hate
The scars of love are beautiful
And
The scars of hate ugly
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Pity on her
Pity on him
Pity on them
Pity on the people suffering
Pity on those in poverty
Pity on those with broken hearts
Pity on those who can't heal their hearts
But is it enough? More can be done beyond pity
In fact! Much can be done, if we would stand as one-