I wish we would’ve loved. No…I’m not talking about another being. I’m talking about loving ourself. We should’ve loved every time we had the opportunity to love. No…I’m not talking about the present. I’m talking about within the past. Had we loved us back then, we wouldn’t need to have an opportunity to love. Love would’ve always been present. When love is present nothing else can slip in. Not depression, not sadness, not temporary horrible feelings, not bad thoughts. Nothing would’ve come that didn’t agree or didn’t connect with love. So love now! Love you so that your mental isn’t affected. Love you so that you don’t lose yourself in those temporary moments. Love you so you can be the strength and encouragement that you need on those bad days. Love you so when everyone else leaves you still have you and you recognize that you are enough. Love you so much that nothing and no one can deter you from what/how you feel about you. Love you for you. Because no one will ever know how to love you better than you love yourself.
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The problem was, “I wanted him to know me without knowing me”.
The result was, “he couldn’t do it”.
I dodged a bullet.-
Alot of people mess up thinking that people have to forgive them in the time frame that they see fit. There’s no time frame for healing and forgiving. You don’t know the damage or how bad you’ve affected a person.
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You gotta stop going out of your way for people who treat you like you’re in the way.
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In any relationship: husband & wife, mother daughter, friends, etc… Right or wrong, you defend them in public and y’all deal with it in private.
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“No” is a sentence. You don’t owe anyone an explanation but if you choose to give a valid reason. The reason is, “because I said so”.
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The introvert/antisocial parts of me needs Facebook to notify me if someone tries to add me to a group chat and send an optional “accept or decline” invitation along with it. I’m sick of this nonsense! I don’t even do group chats. I don’t even like group activities 😩
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But aren’t you concerned?
Concerned that you might find your mind yet again in a suicidal state.
Isn’t it so much easier to give up?
So much easier to know for a fact that you took care of the problem by taking you out of the equation.
Isn’t this a dangerous place? Your mind that is….
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I won’t let anyone invalidate my feelings….ever!! If something you said/done hurt my feelings. Then you hurt my feelings! You don’t get to determine how I feel or how something makes me feel.
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