It's okay sometimes you are not understood... Your actions are misjudged. You want to do something else, convey something else but things turn out against you, and yes then you feel sad, but that doesn't mean you have to change or act a certain way, you just have to learn to put your things correctly out there. There is no problem in expressing what you feel, infact you should because that is exactly what, that defines you, but sometimes you have to learn the art of saying things, not everyone out there is going to understand your word's, nor you should expect that because everyone out there is different, carrying their own bundle of thoughts.
And yes, you shouldn't feel all remorse if you screwed things up, nobody is perfect and we are all allowed to make mistakes, because like I always say... We are all living life for the first and last time.
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