Not invited = Don't go!
Not told = Don't ask!
Late invites = Decline!
You were never part of the plan
You've suddenly become a convenience-
ಬಿಟ್ಟೋದ್ರು ತುಂಬಾ ದುಃಖಿಸಬಾರ್ದು
ಹತ್ತಿರವಾದ್ರು ಅಂತ ಖುಷಿಪಡಬಾರ್ದು
- ವರ್ಧನ್-
Don't go above and beyond
for people anymore. Meet them
as far as they meet you. Speak
To them as much as they speak to you. Include them as much as they include you.-
People will ghost you with no explanation, then weeks later, they'll try to slide back into your life as if nothing happened. They'll act like the absence didn't affect you, and expect you to pick up where you left off, ignoring the fact that they've already violated the unspoken contract of respect.
- Vardhan-
Let the 'M' in May,
stand for more miracles, møney, manifestation and motivation.
- Vardhan-
"Some days,
the bravest thing you can do
is simply get up,
breathe,
and carry on with the ordinary.-
Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery. You have to get to a point where your mood doesn't shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else. Don't allow others to control the direction of your life Don't allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
- Vardhan-
True freedom comes from not taking
Things personally...!
Someone doesn't like you? That's okay.
Someone is judging you? Let them.
Someone chooses to walk away? Wish them well.
We waste too much energy worrying about others' opinions when, in the end,
you are the one in control of your own life.
- Vardhan-
Karma teaches us...
Not everyone who shows you kindness is your true friend. Some of those closest to you may gossip, secretly envy you, and wait for you to stumble. Being kind to them is like feeding snakes and hoping they won't bite.
Keep your circle tight...
and your boundaries stronger.
Some connections are meant to be severed.
-
ಕಾರಣವಿಟ್ಟುಕೊಂಡು
ತುಂಬಾ ಜನರೊಂದಿಗೆ ಮಾತನಾಡಬಹುದು.
ಕಾರಣವಿಲ್ಲದೇ ಮಾತನಾಡುವ ಸ್ನೇಹ
ತುಂಬಾ ವಿಶೇಷವಾದದ್ದು.
- ವರ್ಧನ್-