Dear hubby,
Can you please Chat GPT ify yourself?
Yesterday i asked something to my husband of 12yrs (too far from honeymoon phase)
And today i asked the same question in Chat GPT, i was mesmerized. It exactly said what my hubby said but in a way i would want to listen. I loved the tone, did not feel bossy nor like degrading my morale. Exactly the same words but in a way it inspires me.

So Mr hubby, i know you have been working in Responsible AI for few yrs now, Please take this responsibility of using AI for wife friendly tones before answering me to avoid conflicts.
Regards,
will be your wifey for almost 13yrs in 2 weeks.. 😜( hint)

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“When you have a toxic boss, you pave a path to be a good one”

“This is my slingshot moment i have been waiting for ”

“I am getting back to what I love”

“I know that my potential is not completely utilized here”

I have all these dialogues to say when giving papers for resignation but just waiting for someone to give me that right new job opportunity.

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To all couples, planning to have a child. Just don’t do it as society wants you to have.

Know your partner well, discuss what responsibilities you would share, how are you going to parent the child. What values you need to instill in child, when you need to be strict and who takes up being the bad cop. etc etc.
Child is a huge responsibility and it’s very important that you plan it with the right person.

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We moved from apartment to a home. Nothings changed except for k before it was 1000 sqft of mess and now it’s a 2500sqft of clutter.
Cleaning everyday is basically keeping stuff in its place. Why don’t we keep the damn things in its damn place.
And if you are in charge of cleaning you very soon realise it’s a redundant work. Today you clean tomorrow it’s the same work , same mess.
Solution- Get a high paying job, hire a professional who can do this.
Infact answer to most of the issues in life is get a professional do the work.
Now the task is to find a high paying job to pay these professionals.

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My man always says Choose your battles with kids.
In my life, I am very clear , when I am tired i don’t fight any battle and when i am okay i fight every damn battle with my kids.

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Sometimes, it’s surprising how much we value the husbands words and how much it affects us.
Why don’t we think by ourselves.

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Listening to the motivational speaker and getting inspired who advised the same concept which your husband explained and you never.bothered to listen.

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Everyone speaks about childhood trauma

But the trauma which is never spoken about is the marriage trauma .
( Basically in- laws behavior has traumatized you for life)

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Some very supportive husbands’ would whole heartedly support their wife’s career as long as their work is from


8-3 ( exactly kids school time)
PS- Also lunch is prepared, snack/breakfast is kept on the table( and still they wouldn’t find it and will have calls made regarding this) and house is tidy before we leave for work.

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The one & only reason most of us stay abroad is

The FREEDOM to lead your life the way YOU want it to be.

(In India, I am very sure even a gol gappa wala might give his advise on why doing IT is good for me)

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