Everyone speaks about childhood trauma

But the trauma which is never spoken about is the marriage trauma .
( Basically in- laws behavior has traumatized you for life)

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Some very supportive husbands’ would whole heartedly support their wife’s career as long as their work is from


8-3 ( exactly kids school time)
PS- Also lunch is prepared, snack/breakfast is kept on the table( and still they wouldn’t find it and will have calls made regarding this) and house is tidy before we leave for work.

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The one & only reason most of us stay abroad is

The FREEDOM to lead your life the way YOU want it to be.

(In India, I am very sure even a gol gappa wala might give his advise on why doing IT is good for me)

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Ladies raise your hand, if you WORK - as u want to spend 8-9 hrs just by yourself.
* Not worrying about the home, cleaning, kids, cooking and the whole grind. ( off course, it’s you who has to do all this after reaching home but at-least out of sight is out of mind)
* Because the societal expectations of a stay at home mom is way high.
* And you are tired of serving others throughout the day and you want to do something for yourself for few hours.

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Watching all these mom and daughter duos doing tik tok reels, videos, dances

I wonder why there r less of moms and their son video

And then i heard a sound from my kid’s room a loud noise of smashing something and then a huge cry. Now you know why?

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Today i was in charge of kids pick up and after school activities. ( which i am usually not)
Just within 4 hrs
I got speeding ticket
Kid lost his bike
Got a friendly reminder not to leave a kid alone in a room
Late to 1 class and just on time for another
And in the end it resulted in 1 crying and the other sleeping.
All these just proves that

Parenting is not my cup of tea/ coffee/ juice

PS - They were well fed.
I take my kid’s first pediatrician’s advice very seriously
I am responsible for food and father is for entertainment.

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It’s very important that you and your partner trust each other 100%. If your closed ones start playing games in your life.

Then it’s a big chaos .

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When we start to BUY happiness
Even if you are a millionaire, money is never enough.
Happiness should always be DIY.

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Refreshed and happy !!!
Never had this feeling from 7 yrs as I am a MOM.

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Not to start it. Just go with the flow.

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