When I say I am ready to date , I am not signing up for tolerating lies, not signing up for unchanged behavior, not signing up for competing with other potentials you already kept on hold, I am not signing up for any control freak, I am not signing up for delayed response for days, I am not signing up for unmatched words and actions, I am not signing up for any substance dependencies, I am not signing up for any put down behavior, not signing up for your intolerance towards the difference we have, not signing up for your irritability for own lack of motivation to achieve what you aim for, not signing up for lack of empathy, even not signing up for putting you in pedestal for your professional success.
Any sign for any of the above behavior is the biggest turn off.
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The fact I don't feel insulted easily is not your pass for any insulting behavior. I noticed it and I made a decision not to react and play in your terms. We are not the same, nor am I a victim.
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এই যে ভাই বা দাদারা "তোমাকে ছাড়া কারুর সাথেই কথা বলি না" বলে মেসেঞ্জারে যারা মেসেজ করো, বিশ্বাস করো সেই মেয়েদের প্রফাইলের সাজেশন আমার প্রোফাইলেও আসে, যাদের ছবির কমেন্টে কবিতা লেখো।😁
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As a woman,
No apologies for not smiling at you.
No apologies for saying no to relationships where equality is a myth.
No apologies for making people uncomfortable who dismiss equality.
No apologies for pausing and taking rest.
No apologies for trying, no apologies for failing.
No apologies for not being motherly or "girly".
No apologies for choosing peace over adventures or vice versa.
No apologies for opening my own door and holding the door open.
No apologies for declining to do things after doing it for 1000 times.
No apologies for not feeling safe with that man.
No apologies for not feeling safe with another woman.
No apologies for not being in sync with soceital parameters.
No apologies for not trying to understand the unsaid words.
No apologies that my existence is challenging someone to see life in a different glass or someone finding me intimidating.
Most important thing for a woman is to know that we cannot do it all and stop being sorry for ourselves.-
Last to last year was worse but I came out better to last year. The most valuable thing that I learnt in 2023 is to let go of things I can't control. I think that's the most valuable thing in life. It has been a busy year with all of its ups and downs but the most important thing to do was not waste time on things that hardly matters. Although that sounds very easy peasy , not to me and I still need to learn a lot.
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People don't love you because of you, people love you for who they are. People like you for who you are but they will never love.
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People don't realize selection of friends is an art and nurturing friendship is a science. It has nothing to do with age, ability or even availability, more about setting priority.
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People don't realize selection and nurture of friendship is an art and it has nothing to do with availability, more about priority.
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