Loving your family means taking care of you, so that you can stay strong when they actually need you.
Surviving difficult days, staying exhausted and still managing to be there is a gift to them rather than them taking care of you, also they are aging and worrying about you makes them age faster.

So, give them this precious gift and stay healthy ♥️🙏

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Whenever I have my daughter, I may not give her, her dream wedding or fancy vacation.

But I wish to give her a home or help to build one, it will be only hers, not mine, not his father's neither his brothers nor husband.

It will just belong to her, so she can paint it with her favourite colour and can keep pets, whoever she wishes to.
Can wear her mini skirt and sleeps till 10am.
Can dance on some crazy song and scream when needed.

This would be for her to live truely and rest peacefully.

But I will make sure she can see water and some trees from there.

Because women to women, I know her. She needs it.

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When life happens to you, you will be in complete shock and denial as you may think that going through a certain path will fill your life with happiness.
But with time you will start seeing life from different perspectives as:
1. The change in people.
2. The people who love you is not same one you have thought would be.

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हमने ईश्क की वो सीमा नहीं देखी,
हमने रोया नहीं है साथ में ।

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There is something called "Silent Separation"
In which we live together but our hearts are far away from the other person.
We expect nothing, disappointments made us not to believe in words.
And then with multiple attempts of mistreatment the heart started building walls to not let see what was going on with it because when you did nobody cared.
In order to protect ourselves we become silent, and then also nobody cared.
So you silently detach yourself from each one of them and only live in your mind.

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The saddest part about life is not knowing what's wrong with you.
Or either the knowns are not in your control.
And then you left with your madness and hopeless heart.
To keep wandering in search of peace.

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I believe I will kill myself one day because the voices in my mind don't stop.

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The broken pieces of yours which are hard to collect & append sometimes.
You will be left with all the memories attached with every piece.
The sadness covers all the corners of the heart and makes it difficult to move a bit of your body because it pains immensely if you try you do so.
The night becomes so dark and hopeless like there is no tomorrow of this pain.
And it never ends.

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It's not a big surprise or diamond or gift,
It's always a gesture, a mindful conversation, and gratefulness .
But as we grow the equation changes,
And with each passing day we lose ourselves bit by bit creating the voids in between.
And the sadness, disappointment, and the detachment fills those voids and changes us for the different person.
And It's not always for the good or for the wisdom but it tears us apart from our true identity which leads to leaving us shattered.

And the longing for being the same person makes us do some investments which makes us fear if we will turn out to be fools in the end.

And if we turn out cold, we will lose ourselves.

So we spend our most of the time thinking to give up on that part or be in touch with our true identity.

So, it's always the conflict for few of us.

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I have always thought I will set each person free in order for them to behave in their own way but realised it's quite difficult when your feelings lead the game.

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