You know what your problem is ? You get attached , fast . And once you ' re attached to someone , you do everything you can to please them and make them happy . It ' s never been about what you want , it ' s always everyone ' s needs before your own . You give out too many chances to people , who quite frankly , do not deserve them . They take advantage of you , and you become a pushover . But you ' re okay with that , because they ' re in your life and that ' s all you ever really wanted . And even if they screw you over , you ' ll still be there for them . Because that ' s you , that who you are . Once you get attached to someone , they capture your heart and they always have a place there . And that is why it ' s so hard for you to let him go .