In life, every individual aspires to grow in each and every aspects. And there will be a lot of hurdles on the way as well and also you come across people who are jealous of you or they are insecure about you. To silence em, all you've gotta do is to keep doing what you've been doing over the years with same intent which you had with same integrity, honesty, loyalty and be more resilient and be much more stronger than ever before.

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Hum insaan aksar jhoot bol jaate hain, yeh toh svaabhaavik hai. Kabhi khud ki safayi mein, ya kabhi khud ko bachane ke khaatir.
Chalo, ek baar ke liye jhoot bol bhi liya toh koi baat nhi, maan liya.
Lekin, uss ek jhoot ko chupaane ke khaatir jab aap sau jhoot bol jaate ho,
toh sahab /memsahib aap mein sachayi toh chodo, aap bharose ke layak hi nhi kehlaoge.

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When you think about your past, like there was a time, when you were a silent character and as time passed, the life you lived and depending upon your situations in life you decided to change yourself accordingly and try and become a talkative person. But, it doesn't seem smooth as it looks as we think it is. It has it's own challenges in a way ofcourse to deal with. More than a challenge it's the people who make it difficult actually and are very difficult to deal with.
Becoming a talkative is not that easy, when you realise that things that you speak even if they hear it, they're not being heard. So, it's better that we remain calm, and talk only if needed, or rather it would be better if we don't talk.

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Often when you sit back, think and reflect about life that you've observed keenly and most importantly the people around you,
They have lost that authenticity which they had earlier, it's not the same anymore for what so ever the reason may be.
And, the harsh reality is once you start understanding and knowing that those people around you, they start playing mind games, be manipulative, be more judgemental than before.
That feeling is disgusting and gutted in itself.

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The thing about travelling is that, no matter how you have planned it experience it accordingly, experience the moments rather than cribbing the things which did not fulfill your needs or they couldn't meet your expectations.
Because, the moments you experience will only come once. It's better to be happy and thankful for getting the opportunity and with the things you're getting to live and enjoy those moments.

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It's funny, as often if we really think about what do a male and a female usually get in life generally, if they are friends or in a relationship or whatsoever the reason may be.
Well, females are mostly destined in life with all the perks and males get all the quirks to deal with it for their entire life.

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It takes a lot to maintain your authentic self and in that journey you're grilled, roasted and toasted and you just gotta stay firm, stay rigid and in all that you need to follow your gut. And as time passes you become emotion less, feeling less. In all of that you tend to forget the original you. To bring it back you become a different personality which makes you all the more a different person and most of them would not be able to digest and they dislike you. Which should not bother you or affect you.

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Don't make social media Reels, shorts or whatever videos so habitual that it affects you so much more that you cannot live without. Don't make it a part of your daily basis.
Remember, nowadays every tom, dick and harry and also Sita, Gita and papita are sweeping philosophies on different things.
And you don't know whom to trust.
They are doing it to earn money in the name of creativity, but you are watching it to waste your time.
That's the difference. Waste your time on something which will be useful for you.

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When you talk about growing through what we go through, remember that you will grow forward in life, only when you stop living with the past, that's when you start growing.

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It's not about reaching your destination, it's about the journey you travelled and how you survived to reach your destination.

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