She can be independent, not just financially but also physically. when it comes to the matter of self respect, she'll stand for it. No matter how hard it is.
Live the moment, cherish the people around you, enhance the chances you have got, work at it with all your heart, obviously success will be on your way.
If someone disappear from this world all at once, the love you shown on them brings a smile on your face, but the hate you shown gives only the regret.