If someone’s presence elevates your habits and enriches your routine, consider it a worthy investment.

But if their influence disrupts your growth and derails your discipline, it’s not a connection — it’s a caution signal

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Do not go with the flow
Be the flow

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God guides us,
Growth shapes us,
Goals drive us
Together, they forge a life of purpose and fulfillment

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Our choices weave our fate's design,
What we deserve, our actions define.
Don't wait for others to set the tone,
Choose wisely, and your worth will be shown.

Treat yourself with respect and care,
Set boundaries, and your value declare.
Don't rely on others to make you whole,
Your actions shape the life you call home.

Frame your destiny with every deed,
And acceptance of what you truly need.
Your choices are the architect's hand,
Building a life that's truly grand

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You are your power
You just have to explore

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Ordinary souls care for only their people
universal souls care for all.

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A bond once strong, now frayed and worn
Years of silence, a heavy heart forlorn
We once shared laughter, tears, and time
But now, your change leaves me heavy

The memories linger, bittersweet and cold
Fails to grasp the friendship we once hold
Hurts to call you friend, a title now undone
Longing for what was, forever gone

In your transformation, I see a stranger's face
A part of me lost, a memory erased
Time may heal, but wounds remain deep
A chapter closed, a friendship we can't retrieve

We drifted apart, like leaves on a stream
Unspoken words, a silent scream
The past lingers, a ghostly refrain
Echoes of what we had, now but a strain

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While it's beautiful to
have a support system and
lean on others when needed,

it's equally important to cultivate independence and self-sufficiency.

Learning to stand on your
own two feet and tackle
challenges solo can be
incredibly empowering

It helps you grow into a stronger,
more resilient version of yourself

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Express your emotions when they arise, because there's no such thing as the 'perfect' time.

The longer you wait, the more you risk losing the opportunity to connect genuinely with others.

Be true to yourself and speak from the heart – it's the best way to form meaningful relationships.

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Oh cherry, dear one, you've journeyed far,
With heart aflame and a shining star.
You've learned to love yourself, to prioritize your soul,
To let go of those who don't make you whole.

If someone doesn't cherish your loving heart,
Or value the worth that sets you apart,
If they don't respect your boundaries, your space,
It's time to move on, to find your perfect place.

Surround yourself with those who adore,
Who appreciate your beauty, and so much more.
You deserve to be loved, to be cherished and true,
Cherry, dear one, remember, your worth shines through.

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