Efforts are something which shows it's presence on its own,,
It's not something you have to tell your partner every time that yes, I do care for you, I do feel for you!!
When efforts are applied there isn't a need of saying this, that yes I do put an effort.. and where every time you have to ask for this, there isn't existing any 'effort'!!
Distance yourself from such relationships coz it's just a 'tag'
A bloody 'relationship tag'!!
Which neither keeps you happy on its own nor allows yourself to do something for you!!

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