Sometimes it is so evident that nobody understands your plight. Either they don't know what you are going through or they try to be there without actually understanding your situation. Anyways if you can't explain yourself or convey what you need and what they need to do for you, it is a mess. So, be expressive enough to show what's inside, adequately.

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Racism ...
The incidents of racism across the globe prove that the education system does its job and the society its. A lot is taught, written, a lot is discussed and shown but mind you, generation of the younger lot learns by seeing the mannerisms, the lifestyles and above all the so called civilization's norms. So for a change to take place, everything has to be just manifested for the better.

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Conversation - keep it straight
When a personal question is asked we generalise and when a common topic is discussed we personalise the experience. We should learn to listen and comprehend accordingly and not otherwise. It saves a lot of energy and argument and obviously time.

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मशाल जल रही है
खामखां उम्मीद को
ज़लील न करना।
न झांक इधर
ऐ ज़िन्दगी खामखां
रास्ते तब्दील न करना।
झुकाया है सर
हुनर के सामने
चन्द रुपयों के लिए
मुझे मजबूर न करना।
हाथ बढ़ाऊं मैं
ज़िम्मेदारी से भरा
मशहूर कर मुझे लाचार न करना।।

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Sorry to interrupt-- productive conversations

How can I make up for the lost time?
Sorry for not being there.
What's going on?
Do you need anything?
Have you had your lunch?
Chill, let's just talk.
I missed you.
What happened?
You are not to be blamed alone.
Take your time.
I am so busy nowadays, give me some time.
I need you by my side.
I want you to understand that I am there always.
Are some important phrases in a relationship, use them often.

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*Generally- when you are bad(cunning, sharp tongued, selfish) people stay away from you or do not try to prank you even.
*When you are good, selfless, soft spoken they test you, how far can you go with your nature. They defy you and at times even prank you. Probably, then accept you as you are. There is no harm to them you see.
That doesn't mean that you stop being good or who you are.

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To understand what is happening around you just need to be humane. But to help others understand and listen to you, you need to have some skills, like being a fighter, being the one to fight the odds and being the one to stand alone all by himself.
People look upto someone who is brave. Because everyone seeks support and security by the end of the day.

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Whenever you are stuck up in a situation just ask--
Do I deserve this?
Did I do anything wrong?
You will get answers and the solutions to your problems.
Never say this can't be resolved.

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Have you ever thought or have a list, not long but significant one. That makes you better day by day, forgiving, accepting, thanking and making new friends, connecting with the loved ones, improving in the matters of heart and mind still performing worldly tasks. Then, you won't have time for degenerative thoughts, being victim or for that matter even to cry over spilt milk.
Then the real life begins.

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Everytime time I think, this is it!
This is the best I can give and have.
I get a tougher challenge. Nevertheless it makes me stronger.
Keep learning and keep soaring.

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