Don't hand over the power of controlling your emotions into someone else's hands. If they are able to make you happy today, they can also make you miserable tomorrow, even without your consent. But, once you master self-control, no other person, no chaos, no heartbreak, no trouble can rule over your emotions. The moment when you choose to become independent emotionally, you'll witness the hurdles of your mind gradually fading away.

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Becoming an emotionally independent human being isn't easy. It takes a lot of courage and will. It takes courage to isolate yourself from others when you need them desperately to be at your side. It takes will to go deeper and finding the causes of misery and fixing them yourself. While making efforts in gaining the emotional independence, you go through revolutionary changes in your personality and such changes don't happen overnight. People may look at you and admire you for being so independent, but they see only what's there on the surface. They don't know what's lying beneath this strong surface. They don't know you need to struggle a lot to have that emotional independence. It takes long. It needs you to shed a lot of tears before you stop seeking someone else's hands to wipe your tears.

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Remember school library ,

Filled with globes
Stories where cindrella wearing those long robes
Big fat encyclopaedia
Some related to media
English, accounts , geography and many more
All were teaching same competition
Those researches and theorems
They taught addition and subtraction
Rules of grammar and debates
To prove we are the best
Why weren't there any books
On financial and emotional intelligence
Library is an optional study
Why not to make that childs favourite study

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The best gift being single gave me is
"Emotional Independence"

This is love💕💕

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When you are already broken from inside,
people close to you should help you rebuild.
Unfortunately, some 'close' people
try to break you even more and then
they also enjoy watching you break.

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This phase is a reminder that
some battles have to be fought alone
and also that, YOU CAN fight alone.

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Being a Mind Warrior
is about becoming
your own best friend,
your own vent,
your own healer.

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Emotional independence
is a special strength
that you can have.

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After a certain age,
you do not want to hear
'this too shall pass'.
You want to know
what to do in the meantime.

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In any difficult situation,
the first number
on your speed dial
should be of your
own strong mind.

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