Create the life that you want to live. Sing, even when you're unsure of the words. Dance to a rhythm that your feet decide. Laugh as much as your lungs allow. Love your favourite people, deeply and without question. Forget about the rest of them. Fill your mind and your heart with sunshine. Fall in love with a life that's as messed up and imperfect as you are.
When God is showing you that somebody is not for you and you continue to pursue them. He will make them hurt you until you have no choice but to leave.