For most part of my life i used to think, like other regular optimists out there in the world, that the power of affection and love can change someone... If you truly, sincerely love someone with all what you have, the same will be reciprocated.
It took a while to understand, it is the way that the person is wired that they behave a certain way with certain people.. it is not about how you feel about them or how you make them feel... It is about what they are capable of doing. A mason cannot be a sculptor if he has no taste for art. A person cannot reciprocate affection if he is not capable of love and a person cannot trust if he has no faith.
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