One sided friendships are the worst.
When you dont receive the same efforts you give,
Once you get a vibe of being unwanted,
Its better to walk off and dont look back.
Slowly pull yourself from the humiliation with dignity.
When all your friends have friends more important than you, please dont bother them..
There itself is a message for you to understand that you are just an option or someone they want when no one is there to pass their time.
Despite you being loyal, you are not considered as a friend..
Definitely not a friend who is called and included when there is an issue..
Not a friend with any definition of a friendship..
Just someone to add the count of member in a group.
Just a person to party with..
But Definitely not a friend.

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Dont spare anyones feelings, they didn't feel bad when you were hurt.
Just when you needed them, you were left alone with that feeling.
The truth is when you give someone more importance, you will end up losing your importance.

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Never sacrifice your comfort thinking people will notice that and be thankful.
No one gives a damn!
And the next chance they get, they will help make your life even harder.
Put up your boundaries.

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Never take kindness for granted, even the nicest people have their limits.
I dont mind doing favours but i hate being taken for granted.
Im humble and nice always but when im not, i might be the worst person you come across.
Dont force me to show that side of me.
You owe me respect and consideration just as much as i give you.
Instead of being mean and ungrateful, try being nice and sweet even when you dont want anything in return from the person.

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He may still love you
He may still want you
Maybe he doesnt know what he wants
Probably still thinks about you all the time
But what does matter is what is he doing about it?
And..
If hes doing about it is NOTHING,
You most certainly shouldn't do anything.
You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life.
If someone is ready to lose you
You most certainly shouldnt be an option waiting for them to realise your worth.
Just move on.

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The day you understand will be the day you will be trying to find me
But i wont be found

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She is that once in a lifetime person❤️

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In a relationship you need not worry when someone is fighting because they are fighting to understand you and fighting for you to understand them
But one thing you got to worry about is when they stop fighting and go silent and careless because thats when they are tired of fighting..
Tired of fighting for the relationship and you.
Dont lose one good person over your ego and carelessness
Because when its gone, it will really be gone and the same will never come back.

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There comes a time in your life when you have mixed feelings about everything.
You try to reach out to the people you love, trying to explain and find solutions to the mental struggle that you think is big for you, yet you face neglect making you think maybe its not.
Making you feel lesser for even bringing things up, embarrassed to open up.
Only to find a narrow road which you never even noticed before and come across people who love you back with a spark and passion to hold you tight.
To show you and remind your worth.
To listen to you, make you feel heard and genuinely loved and cared for.
Stand by you and pull you out from whatever gloom you are in without a thought, without even a flinch.
Letting you know you are one in a million and putting in small efforts to show they care way too much to let you go.
In the quest of finding and chasing the people you love, you forgot to notice the ones that love you.

Go where you are celebrated.
Dont let it slip away.

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Little but important things that everyone should come in terms with is..
No response is in itself a response
For you to back off and give it space
And move on with your life and stop wasting time chasing.
Sometimes love means,
Taking a step back.
Whats yours will be yours and whats not was never yours to begin with.

Timing wont always be in your favour but finding time is always in your hands.
If they wanted to, they definitely would No matter what!
You just need to be number one priority
Dont keep guessing, you would know if you are.

Not everyone has the same heart as you,
Not everyone stays the same.
Seasons change and so does people and their hobbies and passions along with their need of you.

Little but important things!

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