We were raised with a notion to get things that we need than want. We end up doing things that we need than want. To want to do what we need is norm. To need to do what we want is what we need to be ourselves.
I hang out with people who are evil. To die with the hope to meet them in hell. To bitch about the torture together. Do a two puff pass and share the meal together. To live and celebrate the death together.