Emotional attachment is not love. It's directly proportional to agony. The more we are attached, the more it aches. In a relationship when two people are emotionally attached if one is hurt then the other will, one is frustrated so the other is. Here, they always need a third member to help them lessen their pain as he/she isn't emotionally attached to them and can be neutral in understanding their situation. But when two are emotionally detached if one is in pain the other is strong to pull him/her out of it. Which means if one member falls into the pit the other one pulls him/her out as they didn't fall into the pit. Only in detached state, one can experience unconditional love and respect.

- Pavani Krishna MK