You would tell it's her way of loving. I don't think she distinguishes it or keeps it as a thing, booklet, or her medicines. You don't remind her every time nor does she lets you remind her of the times she loves and the times she despises you. I tell her (now the count is in thousands) to not insist on having meals on time with food that induces sleep. Pickles. Papads and everything spicy, sweet, oil, and ghee. Missing her is happening to find a condition and inability to find it.
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