It does hurt when someone who you were this close to ,now has put your conversation in the dark.
But then I feel if we made people feel a little more loved in a time where they've felt alone or made someone feel special in the moment ,then I'm more than joyful with having had that bond.-
Having late night conversations with that one person who understands you is special,
Even though you know it's super late yet you start pushing yourself to stay awake because you just want to hear their voice or read their text as that makes you both smile and vibe is worth spending the night.-
It's not about what happens to you ,
It's about how you react to make a better choice .-
As the years go by, the more you realize it's not about who knows you the longest, it's about who makes it a priority to make you feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported and loved.
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In a time now where some only focus on satisfying physical needs in relationships and fwb's .
I still feel that we shouldn't forget the basics ,
I personally think of the ways I could make her smile, wait for her texts if she reached home safely, letting her lay on my shoulder while she's tired,
Kissing her forehead while we hug so she's comforted, making sure she always feels loved, being her number one supporter when she's having a bad day , being there to listen to eachother and discussing on how to achieve eachother's goals is my priority.-
We reach a phase in life where at times we don't really know why we react or feel a certain way,
Our minds are exhausted and emotions were felt too much at once that now we suddenly start feeling expressionless.-
I see a brave soldier in every woman.
Your strength, resilence and the sacrifices you make everyday is truly respectable .
What inspires me is the amount of kindness and compassion you can still portray towards us despite of the untold struggles you might have faced during that very day and still be able to hold our hands when we need help.
Woman have grace that radiates from within that can brighten up people's life as they have the potential of making so many bonds special and beautiful in their own way.
Happy Woman's Day!-
You're that rare piece of unrefined gem that everyone would wish to be with.
You are so beautiful, with that soft heart and soul, those eyes and that smile...the way you make my heart gush just from your kind and genuinely caring nature you make me want to be a better person.
Remember, they still love you dearly if they continue to fight for your time. So continue smiling and making a difference in people's life by spreading love and being there to listen to eachother.-
Working it out to communicate, listen and understand.
For an open heart and empathizing mind can be an understanding one.
Ego and Pride?
A.K.A Poison and Dagger.
To run away or to ghost texts,
Or looking to swipe right elsewhere,
Blaming and assuming,
Isn't a solution.
Where are the people who scold you out of love and concern? So let's pause and rewind. Love and be loved. Freely and wholly.-
As the globe has completed one whole revolution of the sun, we've come across low instances of high tides and low tides throughout each of our lives this year.
People would've gone from people you know to people you don't anymore.
I'm so glad you've helmed it through all the storms and made it through.
This New Year I Urge you, to not allow people to lead you astray but rather to focus on Kindness, Love, Growth, Meditation and just doing the things that Heal your Inner-Self too.-