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learn to let go when it's time. when someone wants to leave, let them.
when someone pushes you away, leave them alone.
As Someone Said :- "LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE SPENT CONVINCING OTHERS OF YOUR WORTHINESS"
you are here to learn, create, live, spread love and flourish.
unless you learn to let go, unless you forgive yourself and the situation, unless you realize the chapter is over, you cannot move forward.
SOMEDAY, WHEN YOU LOOK BACK,
the decision to simply keep moving forward will have been the most important decision of your life.
SO ACCEPT THE LESSON AND NEVER STOP EVOLVING.
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" TIME "
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As Someone Said : - "TIME IS THE LONGEST DISTANCE BETWEEN TWO PLACES, IT'S ALSO THE SHORTEST"
like everyone, you enjoy the present and its passing pleasures.
you connect to the trends of the moment and to the current flow of life. but
YOU DERIVE EVEN GREATER PLEASURE FROM REACHING YOUR LONG-TERM GOALS AND OVERCOMING ADVERSITY.
this expanded relationship to time will have a definite effect on you.
it will make you calmer, more realistic, more in tune with
the things that matte.
IT WILL ALSO MAKE YOU A SUPERIOR STRATEGIST IN LIFE,
able to resist people’s inevitable over-reactions to what is happening in
THE PRESENT AND TO SEE FURTHER INTO THE FUTURE,
a potential power that we humans have only begun to tap into.
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"SMARTNESS"
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IT IS EXTREMELY COMMON NOWADAYS FOR US TO JUDGE
EACH OTHER ON HOW "SMART" WE ARE.
what is smartness?
how does one truly measure it?
if you are already smart, does that mean you are done learning?
can you learn from people who are less smart than you are?
BEING SMART IS AN ILLUSION.
IT IS A CONSTRUCT CREATED BY OUR EGOS,
so we can feel falsely superior to other people based off of how much
mostly useless information we can retain.
once you are able to drop this illusion of smartness and
allow yourself to learn from every source possible, you will begin to realize
how much there is that you actually do not know.
As Someone Said : - "GREAT MINDS NEVER STOP LEARNING AND IGNORANT MINDS ALREADY KNOW EVERYTHING"

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INTERACTIONS WITH PEOPLE ARE THE MAJOR SOURCE OF EMOTIONAL TURMOIL BUT IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE THAT WAY
the problem is that we are continually judging people,
wishing they were something that they are not.
WE WANT TO CHANGE THEM. WE WANT THEM TO THINK AND AND A CERTAIN WAY, MOST OFTEN THE WAY WE THINK AND ACT
because this is not possible, because everyone is different, we are continually frustrated and upset. Instead, see other people as phenomena, as neutral as comets or plants
they simply exist. they come in all varieties, making life rich and interesting
work with what they give you, instead of resisting and trying to change them

As Someone Said :- "MAKE UNDERSTANDING PEOPLE A FUN GAME,
THE SOLVING OF PUZZLES. IT'S ALL PART OF THE HUMAN NATURE"
yes, people are irrational but so are you. make your acceptance of
human nature as radical as possible. this will calm you down and help you observe people more dispassionately, understanding them on a deeper level.
YOU WILL STOP PROJECTING YOUR OWN EMOTIONS ON TO THEM
all of this will give you more balance and calmness, more mental space for thinking

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WE CAN NEVER CONTROL THE CHOICES, ACTIONS
AND
BEHAVIORS OF OTHER PEOPLE, NEVER...
so don't waste your energy thinking that you can,
instead let them be who they are.
As Someone Said :- "WHEN PEOPLE SHOW YOU
WHO THEY ARE - BELIEVE THEM"
the best thing about hard times is that you get to see everyone's
true colors.
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WE HUMANS LIKE TO IMAGINE THAT WE HAVE AN OBJECTIVE KNOWLEDGE OF THE WORLD.
We take it for granted that what we perceive on a daily basis is reality
this reality being more or less the same for everybody.
BUT THIS IS AN ILLUSION, NO TWO PEOPLE SEE OR EXPERIENCE
THE WORLD IN THE SAME WAY.
What we perceive is our personal version of reality, one that is of our own creation.
To realize this is a critical step in our understanding of human nature.
'MEANWHILE, THE WORLD SIMPLY EXISTS AS IT IS'
THINGS OR EVENTS ARE NOT GOOD OR BAD, RIGHT OR WRONG, UGLY OR BEAUTIFUL.
It is we with our particular perspectives who add color to or subtract it from things and people. we shape much of the reality that we perceive, dictated by our
moods and emotions.
As Someone Said :- "EACH OF US SEES THE WORLD THROUGH
A PARTICULAR LENS THAT COLORS AND SHAPES OUR PERCEPTIONS. THIS LENS IS - OUR ATTITUDE"

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EVERYONE, IN FACT, DOES THE SAME.
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A person's salary is determined by the sort of service he renders
THE QUANTITY AND QUALITY OF THAT SERVICE,
plus the mental attitude under which it is rendered.

If millions of people are struggling to get by on the salaries they earn,
it is because their highest aim is only to hold the jobs that they currently have.
THEY ARE WHERE THEY ARE AND
THEY ARE MAKING WHAT THEY MAKE, SOLELY BECAUSE OF
THE LIMITATIONS
'THEY HAVE SET UP IN THEIR OWN MINDS'
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Most people don't understand relationships take emotional work.

They believe the right person will remove discomfort from their life and
make them feel good, when they don't they are resentful.
THEY START LOOKING FOR THE NEXT FANTASY PERSON FOR THE ROLE

As Someone Said :- " LOVE IS NOT ABOUT FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON
It's about realizing that an imperfect person can make your life perfect "
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" IF YOU LIVE FOR LONG, YOU'LL MAKE MISTAKES "
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IF YOU UNDERSTAND AND LEARN FROM THE MISTAKES,
YOU'LL BE A BETTER INDIVIDUAL.
It's how you handle hardships, not how it has affected you. the key thing is never give up, and never quit. we see that no one is immune to mistakes.
the difference between the wise and the ordinary person is that
THE FORMER ACCEPTS AND LEARNS FROM IT WHILE THE LATTER WILL BE ABSORBED IN IT AND LIVE IN REGRET.
however, nothing stays forever.
even the strongest storm eventually passes just like daylight eventually
shines in the darkest of nights.
wipe your tears, dust yourself up, get up and face life.
“EXPERIENCE IS SIMPLY THE NAME WE GIVE OUR MISTAKES”
and as i conclude, i would like to encourage you to press on and
always fix your eyes on the goal.
As Someone Said :- “IT'S FINE TO CELEBRATE SUCCESS BUT
IT IS MORE IMPORTANT TO HEED THE LESSONS OF FAILURE”

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' TODAY IS THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF LIFE '

As Someone Said :- "GREATEST VERSION OF YOU IS WAITING FOR YOU BUT THAT VERSION WILL ONLY BE REALIZED IF YOU DO THE WORK,
YOU MUST DO THAT WORK"
the problem is – most people aren’t willing to put in that work.
what they fail to understand though, is all those easy and comfortable choices now lead to a harder life later.
all those choices that require no brain activity now
all of those choices little by little add up to a great, big problem later and that problem is called disappointment and
THERE REALLY COULD BE NO GREATER PAIN THAN THAT OF
BEING DISAPPOINTED IN YOURSELF
the good news is, that it is never too late to start working on
the best version of you. it's never too late to say
“TODAY IS THE DAY”

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